When selecting the candidate for whom I will vote for, I typically have a few criteria’s that I consider strongly. The candidates moral values, their experience and what issue is best for me at the present moment that I most align with.
Every year since I can recall, there has been the “Social Issues” that come into play and debate: abortion, gay rights/marriage, immigration, discrimination, religion, environment and education. I sometimes believe that candidates or political parties tend to place fear in voters when it comes to these issues.
Every election we have the candidates basically making the same promises of change, fixing this or that, or ‘cleaning up Washington’. Each blames the others parties or previous administration for the mess the country is in. To me it’s the same rhetoric every election cycle. Like a scratched record playing over and over the same line.
So this election year, I’ve been particularly perplexed. I knew early on I was not an Obama supporter. I didn’t vote for him 4 years ago and have not been impressed with him these last 4 years. He’s been more of a disappointment to me. I also was not a big Romney supporter either early on. He was not my clear favorite running in the Republican Primary earlier in the year. However, once it became apparent that he was the Republican nominee, I had to look at him more as a serious candidate.
As an Independent voter, I take great pride and responsibility in casting my vote for the correct candidate in every election. I base my decision on the candidate and issues, not on a party line or party platform. I don’t vote straight along any party line. In fact, 4 years ago, I voted for candidates in three different parties in various offices they were running for. I like a sampling of every party in every office, forcing working relationships for the betterment of all citizens.
I consider myself well educated on many issues. I can easily hold a discussion on any variety of issues, current and former. I enlighten my knowledge by watching news of various stations and views. I read articles, op-ed pieces, blogs on issues and candidates. I consider myself an active, informed voter.
As I stated in the beginning, there are social issues that are talked about every election. I firmly believe that those same social issues will be around every election. Social issues are the catalyst for what makes our country diverse. We will always have disagreements with family members, friends, neighbors, co-workers when it comes to social issues. Somehow, social issues always head to our judicial system and seem never-ending. Because of this, I’ve come to realize, I hardly vote on social issues lately. This is not to say that social issues aren’t important to me, they are very important, just that they don’t personally affect my decision any longer in my vote as other issues currently do.
Watching our world change, our technology advance, our financial institutions struggle, wars, terror, uprising in various countries, the continued hate directed at the United Stations from foreign leaders and groups, along with seeing our personal individual liberties being slowly taken away by government control, I have learned that voting in regards to both my personal safety and financial safety are the deciding factors in my selecting a candidate.
After my slight hesitation and slow warming up to Mitt Romney these last few months, even weeks, I have concluded that he would be the better candidate to lead our country in a better direction for the next 4 years. I also conclude that he is best suited to work on turning our spiraling economy around, helping my financial safety or security in the long run.
I know there are many people that don’t like Romney for his various views on certain issues, but I implore people to consider first your financial safety this election. We have all seen the rising cost of gas, food, every day living. I doubt many of us can say that we have seen more money in our pockets, bank accounts or come in to us than we have spent on the increase of goods and cost of living these last 4 years.
Yes, social issues are important, but financial issues should trump those issues that will be constantly debated every year, every election, every time, in every judicial way allowed.
I won’t disparage President Obama, though there are many things I can say about him, but I will simply say that I truly believe it was his time 4 years ago to show the country and the world that we could elect a black man president, I am proud that I lived in that momentous moment in history. Now his time has passed, his opportunity has diminished and his leadership is called into question. The “Hope for a New Change” happened 4 years ago on a social issue-race.
Now we need a “hope and change” in our economy and dire financial situation-a fiscal issue should be what our vote is about this election.
Mitt Romney has the skills and leadership I firmly believe to change this.
The beauty of our Constitution and Country is that if Romney doesn’t do in 4 years, we move onto another person. Why wait 4 more years with our current President with the “hope” he can fix something he couldn’t do these last 4 years?
Ask yourself, at your job, if you couldn’t do the job right for 4 years, would your employer keep you on 4 more years with the ‘hope’ you can do the job right or would they let you go and bring in someone else to try?
Let’s fix our economy….Let’s give Mitt Romney a chance.
Monday, October 29, 2012
Sunday, October 28, 2012
I'm BACK!!!!!!!!!!! Lets talk Politics!
There is nothing more important every four years than participating in our right to vote for our President. I take this right as a privilege, reminding me how blessed I am to live in a free country where all citizens are given this right that so many of our fellow inhabitants of this planet in other countries are not granted.
In 2008, we saw the election of the first minority for President. That election showed how far our country and people have come in the past 40 plus years with the issue of race. It was a proud moment in my lifetime to be a witness of.
Through the course of my lifetime, I have always been fascinated, intrigued and excited about government, history and politics. This started in the 6th grade when my teacher Ms. Carol Sparks at Los Serranos Elementary School spoke on the election of Ronald Reagan for President and taught us about Presidents. I recall profoundly her words that day “when you are older you will get to vote one day and when you do vote, you have to understand what is important to you” That lesson sparked a immediate reaction in me about politics and began my lifelong qwest for constant knowledge and participate in politics, elections and government.
There was a young girl named Samantha Smith who wrote a letter to the President of Russia. She received a reply. I remember thinking “if she can write to the President of Russia and get a reply, I can write to my President and get a reply”. So I did. President Ronald Reagan, well someone in his correspondence office, received my simple letter and found it important enough to respond to a young 12 year boy in California. I recall receiving that letter in the mail and how excited I was! I then began writing letters for the next 6 years to everyone in government- from the vice –presidents, first lady, governors of every state, senators, congressmen, mayors, judges and so many others. 90% of the time I received a reply, some I even wrote more than once and the letters in return came with more personal responses.
In the 10th grade, I had a government teacher named Ms. Foster. One day I decided to share with her all my letters and photos I’ve received over the years from various elected officials. She was fascinated and excited to know of a student who took so much joy in government. She asked to keep my binder of letters and photos for a few days to share with all her classes and students. I felt proud.
When I turned 18 and able to vote, there was no Presidental election I could vote in. I did proudly vote for the next 4 years in state and local elections.
I moved to Washington D.C in 1990, wow, how exciting that was to be in center of nations government. I was fascinated and I remember walking from my home in Capital Hill to the Capital one day, passing the Supreme Court and doing a tour. I remember the first time I saw the White House in person, I was overwhelmed. That short time I lived in Washington D.C, I felt I embodied the spirit of politics. I was there during the parade welcoming home our troops from the first Gulf War. It was a very patriotic feeling.
When I returned in late 1991 to California, I immediately had the urge, the prompting, to get involved in elections. There was a news story happening in regards to a L.A. Judge whose sentence sparked protests. I was interested in this story, I don’t know what prompted me, but I felt that the Judge was being targeted unfairly. I decided to call the judge’s chambers and voice my support for her. I left a message with her court clerk. I then decided to write a letter of support to the Judge. She received my letter and sent a reply of thanks and also invited me to meet with her at any time. At this same time, the vocal leader in the protests against the judge was holding rallies at the courthouse. I felt there was too much rhetoric, hate and vicious things being said by her. I decided to write her a letter calling her protest campaign narrow minded and race related without looking at the facts of the case. I decided, maybe too innocently; to hand deliver this letter to her at one of her rallies. I went to the Compton Courthouse and before the start of the rally, walked up to City Councilwoman Patrica Moore and handed her my letter. I recall vividly her facial reactions, at first she assumed I was there to support her and the rally and she smiled at me then she opened the letter and when she realized it was not in support of her, her expression to me was one of disregard and she brushed me off, handing my letter to her assistant. I then proceeded to the courthouse and went up to the floor of the chambers of Judge Joyce Karlin to meet with her. In talking with her, I found out that her husband was running for Congress. I wanted to work on his campaign!! She gave me his campaign directors name and number and told me she would let her husband know I would be in touch and willing to help. She also invited me to any of her fundraisers, as she was facing a recall vote.
I didn’t consider myself at the time a democrat or republican. In fact, I honestly didn’t understand the platforms for each party at the time.
I contacted Bill Fahey’s office to offer my services on his campaign. He accepted my help. This started my various campaign involvements. I saw the inner workings of a campaign.
Bill Fahey was a republican candidate for Congress. One of his primary opponents was Maureen Reagan, former President Ronald Reagans daughter. At one point, her campaign was holding a picnic fundraiser where her father and former first lady Nancy Reagan and Jack Kemp, the Secretary of Housing and former Congressman would be in attendance. I decided I couldn’t pass up this opportunity. I went to her fundraiser and was able to get a picture with Kemp and photos of the former President and First lady up close. This was momentous in my view.
Working on the campaign and my support of Judge Karlin began my personal friendship with Judge Joyce Karlin and Bill Fahey, now a judge. I would housesit for them in their home in Manhattan Beach. I give all credit, as I do to my 6th grade teacher to Judge Karlin for getting me so actively involved in campaigns. Had it not been for her, I doubt I would of ever worked on any campaigns.
During my time at the campaign, I made some local news, as my car was vandalized and it was attributed to my letter of support I gave to Patricia Moore at the courthouse that one day. Being naïve at the time, I left my home address on the letter. Because I was a campaign worker for Bill Fahey and he was the husband of Judge Karlin, it made the news and various newpapers in the area. From that incident, I became a more aware and alert individual.
Well, Bill lost his bid for Congress, but I didn’t lose my desire to continue working on campaigns. I met a woman named Gordana Swanson who was running for LA County Supervisor. I decided I wanted to work on her campaign. I learned more about local politics at that time.
During Gordana Swanson’s campaign, I also volunteered on the campaign of Jay Kim for Congress in the 41st District. He eventually won his election, making history as the first Korean elected to Congress.
I realized that all three of the campaigns I worked on were for Republicans. I considered myself a Republican at the time.
Because my family being staunch democrats and my taking on the views of a Republican, it often created some soul searching for me. As I began studying the platforms of the Republican party more in depth, I found that I couldn’t agree with many of the social issues. I found myself at odds also with the fiscal, federal and foreign views of the democratic party. This left me in the middle.
It is during this time, I considered myself to be an independent voter. I supported the democrats on social issues, but supported the republicans on all other issues. Today, I might even consider myself a centrist or moderate republican.
So from my 6th grade teacher to a judge who was targeted for recall, these two ladies sparked a young boy and young man into the world of politics, elections and government.
I have found myself at odds many times with candidates and who I should vote for. However, I will always be grateful for the influence of two strong women who encouraged me to get involved and seek knowledge. How I wish everyone had the same strong desire and interest to be involved in any role in elections, politics and service to our community. This will always be a life long passion of mine.
In 2008, we saw the election of the first minority for President. That election showed how far our country and people have come in the past 40 plus years with the issue of race. It was a proud moment in my lifetime to be a witness of.
Through the course of my lifetime, I have always been fascinated, intrigued and excited about government, history and politics. This started in the 6th grade when my teacher Ms. Carol Sparks at Los Serranos Elementary School spoke on the election of Ronald Reagan for President and taught us about Presidents. I recall profoundly her words that day “when you are older you will get to vote one day and when you do vote, you have to understand what is important to you” That lesson sparked a immediate reaction in me about politics and began my lifelong qwest for constant knowledge and participate in politics, elections and government.
There was a young girl named Samantha Smith who wrote a letter to the President of Russia. She received a reply. I remember thinking “if she can write to the President of Russia and get a reply, I can write to my President and get a reply”. So I did. President Ronald Reagan, well someone in his correspondence office, received my simple letter and found it important enough to respond to a young 12 year boy in California. I recall receiving that letter in the mail and how excited I was! I then began writing letters for the next 6 years to everyone in government- from the vice –presidents, first lady, governors of every state, senators, congressmen, mayors, judges and so many others. 90% of the time I received a reply, some I even wrote more than once and the letters in return came with more personal responses.
In the 10th grade, I had a government teacher named Ms. Foster. One day I decided to share with her all my letters and photos I’ve received over the years from various elected officials. She was fascinated and excited to know of a student who took so much joy in government. She asked to keep my binder of letters and photos for a few days to share with all her classes and students. I felt proud.
When I turned 18 and able to vote, there was no Presidental election I could vote in. I did proudly vote for the next 4 years in state and local elections.
I moved to Washington D.C in 1990, wow, how exciting that was to be in center of nations government. I was fascinated and I remember walking from my home in Capital Hill to the Capital one day, passing the Supreme Court and doing a tour. I remember the first time I saw the White House in person, I was overwhelmed. That short time I lived in Washington D.C, I felt I embodied the spirit of politics. I was there during the parade welcoming home our troops from the first Gulf War. It was a very patriotic feeling.
When I returned in late 1991 to California, I immediately had the urge, the prompting, to get involved in elections. There was a news story happening in regards to a L.A. Judge whose sentence sparked protests. I was interested in this story, I don’t know what prompted me, but I felt that the Judge was being targeted unfairly. I decided to call the judge’s chambers and voice my support for her. I left a message with her court clerk. I then decided to write a letter of support to the Judge. She received my letter and sent a reply of thanks and also invited me to meet with her at any time. At this same time, the vocal leader in the protests against the judge was holding rallies at the courthouse. I felt there was too much rhetoric, hate and vicious things being said by her. I decided to write her a letter calling her protest campaign narrow minded and race related without looking at the facts of the case. I decided, maybe too innocently; to hand deliver this letter to her at one of her rallies. I went to the Compton Courthouse and before the start of the rally, walked up to City Councilwoman Patrica Moore and handed her my letter. I recall vividly her facial reactions, at first she assumed I was there to support her and the rally and she smiled at me then she opened the letter and when she realized it was not in support of her, her expression to me was one of disregard and she brushed me off, handing my letter to her assistant. I then proceeded to the courthouse and went up to the floor of the chambers of Judge Joyce Karlin to meet with her. In talking with her, I found out that her husband was running for Congress. I wanted to work on his campaign!! She gave me his campaign directors name and number and told me she would let her husband know I would be in touch and willing to help. She also invited me to any of her fundraisers, as she was facing a recall vote.
I didn’t consider myself at the time a democrat or republican. In fact, I honestly didn’t understand the platforms for each party at the time.
I contacted Bill Fahey’s office to offer my services on his campaign. He accepted my help. This started my various campaign involvements. I saw the inner workings of a campaign.
Bill Fahey was a republican candidate for Congress. One of his primary opponents was Maureen Reagan, former President Ronald Reagans daughter. At one point, her campaign was holding a picnic fundraiser where her father and former first lady Nancy Reagan and Jack Kemp, the Secretary of Housing and former Congressman would be in attendance. I decided I couldn’t pass up this opportunity. I went to her fundraiser and was able to get a picture with Kemp and photos of the former President and First lady up close. This was momentous in my view.
Working on the campaign and my support of Judge Karlin began my personal friendship with Judge Joyce Karlin and Bill Fahey, now a judge. I would housesit for them in their home in Manhattan Beach. I give all credit, as I do to my 6th grade teacher to Judge Karlin for getting me so actively involved in campaigns. Had it not been for her, I doubt I would of ever worked on any campaigns.
During my time at the campaign, I made some local news, as my car was vandalized and it was attributed to my letter of support I gave to Patricia Moore at the courthouse that one day. Being naïve at the time, I left my home address on the letter. Because I was a campaign worker for Bill Fahey and he was the husband of Judge Karlin, it made the news and various newpapers in the area. From that incident, I became a more aware and alert individual.
Well, Bill lost his bid for Congress, but I didn’t lose my desire to continue working on campaigns. I met a woman named Gordana Swanson who was running for LA County Supervisor. I decided I wanted to work on her campaign. I learned more about local politics at that time.
During Gordana Swanson’s campaign, I also volunteered on the campaign of Jay Kim for Congress in the 41st District. He eventually won his election, making history as the first Korean elected to Congress.
I realized that all three of the campaigns I worked on were for Republicans. I considered myself a Republican at the time.
Because my family being staunch democrats and my taking on the views of a Republican, it often created some soul searching for me. As I began studying the platforms of the Republican party more in depth, I found that I couldn’t agree with many of the social issues. I found myself at odds also with the fiscal, federal and foreign views of the democratic party. This left me in the middle.
It is during this time, I considered myself to be an independent voter. I supported the democrats on social issues, but supported the republicans on all other issues. Today, I might even consider myself a centrist or moderate republican.
So from my 6th grade teacher to a judge who was targeted for recall, these two ladies sparked a young boy and young man into the world of politics, elections and government.
I have found myself at odds many times with candidates and who I should vote for. However, I will always be grateful for the influence of two strong women who encouraged me to get involved and seek knowledge. How I wish everyone had the same strong desire and interest to be involved in any role in elections, politics and service to our community. This will always be a life long passion of mine.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
The Grass Beneath My Feet
Some say that the grass is always greener on the other side. Others say the grass only "looks" greener on the other side. But if you're like me, you sometimes painfully admit that the grass is really only as green as you care to make it.
I guess that's one of the many keys to happiness in life--to learn the art of keeping your grass green even when you feel surrounded by an ocean of withering brown. I've heard on many occasions that our lives are what we make of it. I still have a hard time believing that 100%. I'd rather blame a lot of things on circumstance or fate-that are beyond our control. It's a coping mechanism I suppose.
I ended 2009 with many some sadness, but also with gladness that the year was finally over and time to start anew! I reflected on New Year day some of the things that were basically "brown" on my side...the hospital visits, lost friendships, misunderstandings, the wishful hopes, and petty annoyances. Then I tried to look at the "greener" side of things, and well, it seemed the brown side kept moving over and I couldn't escape it. I felt like I always am surrounded by a brown field and I'm sick of it.
But I'm gonna make every effort to make it to the other side..the greener side this year and stay green!
Sometimes the grass truly is greener on the other side. And when we do get to that "other" side, our eyes are opened and our paradigm of the world changed forever. The year 1991 It was the greatest time of my life. I sometimes wish that I could leave the circumstance I find myself in now and run in greener fields like I did 19 years ago. But then again, life is mostly what we make of it. So watch were our feet are.
I guess that's one of the many keys to happiness in life--to learn the art of keeping your grass green even when you feel surrounded by an ocean of withering brown. I've heard on many occasions that our lives are what we make of it. I still have a hard time believing that 100%. I'd rather blame a lot of things on circumstance or fate-that are beyond our control. It's a coping mechanism I suppose.
I ended 2009 with many some sadness, but also with gladness that the year was finally over and time to start anew! I reflected on New Year day some of the things that were basically "brown" on my side...the hospital visits, lost friendships, misunderstandings, the wishful hopes, and petty annoyances. Then I tried to look at the "greener" side of things, and well, it seemed the brown side kept moving over and I couldn't escape it. I felt like I always am surrounded by a brown field and I'm sick of it.
But I'm gonna make every effort to make it to the other side..the greener side this year and stay green!
Sometimes the grass truly is greener on the other side. And when we do get to that "other" side, our eyes are opened and our paradigm of the world changed forever. The year 1991 It was the greatest time of my life. I sometimes wish that I could leave the circumstance I find myself in now and run in greener fields like I did 19 years ago. But then again, life is mostly what we make of it. So watch were our feet are.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Jesus & Sinners
I don't know about you, but what stands out to me most in the scriptures, namely the New Testament, is the great difference between Jesus and ourselves. Even the difference between those that have the best intentions, but those intentions can be misguided.
I'm going to relate how a passage in Luke can be so applied in our lives today:
The scribes and the Pharisees felt that those who had broken the religious and moral laws of Judaism were beyond the pale: they were to be excluded, ostracised and rejected. Their attitude was not only judgemental, not only condemnatory, but was also self-righteous. It was as though they had established a stockade with the righteous safely on the inside and sinners outside. The righteous would be safe from becoming contaminated by the unrighteous.
How different this was from the attitude of Jesus! Luke tells us that, without condoning sin, Jesus welcomed sinners and offered them forgiveness and love, and gave them understanding and care. Like a magnet, he drew the most despised members of society towards himself and valued their friendship. But, of course, he did more than that! Jesus not only welcomed sinners when they came to him, but he took the trouble to seek them out and meet them. No wonder that when the scribes and Pharisees saw Jesus in the company of such people they got very indignant and cross.
In response to their criticism, Jesus told people the parables of the lost sheep, and the lost coin. Elsewhere he also told them the parable of the lost son. All these familiar stories illustrate Jesus' relationship with the 'lost', and point us towards the central tenets of his gospel. But more: they also set markers for our relationship with God and with each other, today and every day.
Jesus welcomed sinners because he believed that God is love and that his ministry was to give human, visible expression to that love. For Jesus, God's love was more concerned with forgiveness and reconciliation and new life, a fresh start, than with condemnation, punishment and retribution. God's love doesn't deal with categories of people, whether they are righteous or unrighteous, but it is offered to every individual, to each one of us, here and everywhere else. There is worth in everybody. God's love takes the initiative in seeking out the loveless, the hard to love, and recognises their potential to become what they are: the children of God. This is the gospel for which Jesus lived and died. This is the gospel which so angered the scribes and the Pharisees who failed to see that, in Jesus, the old covenant of the law with its impossible demands had been replaced, superseded by the new covenant of God's grace. This is the gospel, which, in Christ's day and ever since, has transformed human lives into the living image of Jesus himself. The lost are found and the angels rejoice.
For us, as Christians, these parables are central to us understanding of the task which lies ahead. They clearly demonstrate the nature of God's relationship with us, one which we need to express in our life, our families and work today. The key is that God has no favourites. No one is more loved than another; no one is dismissed as 'worthless', the lesser half of no use at all. All are of equal value to God.
In our society, where we quickly categorise people, this is hard to accept. God's love is not influenced by the things that influence ours - race, gender, religion, politics, social standing, profession, or income to name but a few. God's love is not even affected by a person's moral standing, a truth which sometimes, like the Pharisees, we find hard to accept. Don't the good-living, upright, churchgoing citizens deserve more at God's hands than those (by our standards) who ignore or break God's commandments?
Sometimes it seems, on reading the scriptures, that God's love for the sinful, the despised, the marginalised and the outcasts of society is greater than for people 'of our sort'. I don't know, but could that be because those who are denied love by their fellows are more ready to receive God's love when it is freely offered? Or could it be that God, who sees into all our hearts, sees the hidden sinfulness of 'respectable' people - the greed, the pride, the envy, the self-righteousness - and judges it to be on a par with the sinfulness of those who openly flout the moral code?
In God's eyes all are 'lost', but all are loved; for to describe anything as lost means that we have invested it with value. It is this inclusive love which must be the heartbeat of our lives so that we worship and witnesse to Christ. No one, whether within or outside the fellowship, should experience cold rejection at our hands and none must be cold-shouldered or refused practical care. Different though we may be from one another in a variety of ways, we are all, by the fact of our common humanity, created, loved and accepted by God as we are.
Equally important is the truth that God never calls off his search for us. Wherever we are, whatever our need, God seeks us out to bless us with an experience of his love. We may ignore the evidence of his presence, reject him or, as Peter did of Christ on the Sea of Galilee, feel unworthy of him, but still he comes. He takes the initiative and comes to us in scripture, in people, in day-to-day events and in a multitude of other ways; he leaves no avenue unexplored, no door untried.
Well, what about us today? I think that this divine searching should reflect in our actions. Welcoming those that sin, rather rejecting them when they are brave enough to come across our threshold.
From the loving and the seeking it follows that when God finds us we become at home with him and with one another. When, in Jesus' stories, the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the lost son were found, they were restored to where each belonged - to the flock, to the women's treasures, and to the family. When God's love meets a loving response from us, then we, too, have restored the right relationship with him and all who believe in him. The gospel is, therefore, both individual and social; it proclaims that we are of supreme worth in God's sight, and also, that our worth is realised in a loving community, the family of God. No one stands alone: reconciliation, belonging and rejoicing are still our experiences.
When his opponents called Jesus 'the friend of sinners' they intended it to be an insult, but he took it as a compliment. His mission was prospering! The lost were being sought and found, the sinners saved, to give value to every individual. Without exception, everybody is loved by God, sought by him, and offered a place in his family. In that is life for us all.
So with my belief in this, I pray each of us remembers that Jesus is still walking on this earth amoungst the sinners, because that is where He finds his joy, his lost sheep, and helps them to return to the fold. We should do same.
For, I, Michael Henry Beltran, am also a sinner in my own ways, and I find comfort knowing Jesus is still near to me!
I'm going to relate how a passage in Luke can be so applied in our lives today:
The scribes and the Pharisees felt that those who had broken the religious and moral laws of Judaism were beyond the pale: they were to be excluded, ostracised and rejected. Their attitude was not only judgemental, not only condemnatory, but was also self-righteous. It was as though they had established a stockade with the righteous safely on the inside and sinners outside. The righteous would be safe from becoming contaminated by the unrighteous.
How different this was from the attitude of Jesus! Luke tells us that, without condoning sin, Jesus welcomed sinners and offered them forgiveness and love, and gave them understanding and care. Like a magnet, he drew the most despised members of society towards himself and valued their friendship. But, of course, he did more than that! Jesus not only welcomed sinners when they came to him, but he took the trouble to seek them out and meet them. No wonder that when the scribes and Pharisees saw Jesus in the company of such people they got very indignant and cross.
In response to their criticism, Jesus told people the parables of the lost sheep, and the lost coin. Elsewhere he also told them the parable of the lost son. All these familiar stories illustrate Jesus' relationship with the 'lost', and point us towards the central tenets of his gospel. But more: they also set markers for our relationship with God and with each other, today and every day.
Jesus welcomed sinners because he believed that God is love and that his ministry was to give human, visible expression to that love. For Jesus, God's love was more concerned with forgiveness and reconciliation and new life, a fresh start, than with condemnation, punishment and retribution. God's love doesn't deal with categories of people, whether they are righteous or unrighteous, but it is offered to every individual, to each one of us, here and everywhere else. There is worth in everybody. God's love takes the initiative in seeking out the loveless, the hard to love, and recognises their potential to become what they are: the children of God. This is the gospel for which Jesus lived and died. This is the gospel which so angered the scribes and the Pharisees who failed to see that, in Jesus, the old covenant of the law with its impossible demands had been replaced, superseded by the new covenant of God's grace. This is the gospel, which, in Christ's day and ever since, has transformed human lives into the living image of Jesus himself. The lost are found and the angels rejoice.
For us, as Christians, these parables are central to us understanding of the task which lies ahead. They clearly demonstrate the nature of God's relationship with us, one which we need to express in our life, our families and work today. The key is that God has no favourites. No one is more loved than another; no one is dismissed as 'worthless', the lesser half of no use at all. All are of equal value to God.
In our society, where we quickly categorise people, this is hard to accept. God's love is not influenced by the things that influence ours - race, gender, religion, politics, social standing, profession, or income to name but a few. God's love is not even affected by a person's moral standing, a truth which sometimes, like the Pharisees, we find hard to accept. Don't the good-living, upright, churchgoing citizens deserve more at God's hands than those (by our standards) who ignore or break God's commandments?
Sometimes it seems, on reading the scriptures, that God's love for the sinful, the despised, the marginalised and the outcasts of society is greater than for people 'of our sort'. I don't know, but could that be because those who are denied love by their fellows are more ready to receive God's love when it is freely offered? Or could it be that God, who sees into all our hearts, sees the hidden sinfulness of 'respectable' people - the greed, the pride, the envy, the self-righteousness - and judges it to be on a par with the sinfulness of those who openly flout the moral code?
In God's eyes all are 'lost', but all are loved; for to describe anything as lost means that we have invested it with value. It is this inclusive love which must be the heartbeat of our lives so that we worship and witnesse to Christ. No one, whether within or outside the fellowship, should experience cold rejection at our hands and none must be cold-shouldered or refused practical care. Different though we may be from one another in a variety of ways, we are all, by the fact of our common humanity, created, loved and accepted by God as we are.
Equally important is the truth that God never calls off his search for us. Wherever we are, whatever our need, God seeks us out to bless us with an experience of his love. We may ignore the evidence of his presence, reject him or, as Peter did of Christ on the Sea of Galilee, feel unworthy of him, but still he comes. He takes the initiative and comes to us in scripture, in people, in day-to-day events and in a multitude of other ways; he leaves no avenue unexplored, no door untried.
Well, what about us today? I think that this divine searching should reflect in our actions. Welcoming those that sin, rather rejecting them when they are brave enough to come across our threshold.
From the loving and the seeking it follows that when God finds us we become at home with him and with one another. When, in Jesus' stories, the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the lost son were found, they were restored to where each belonged - to the flock, to the women's treasures, and to the family. When God's love meets a loving response from us, then we, too, have restored the right relationship with him and all who believe in him. The gospel is, therefore, both individual and social; it proclaims that we are of supreme worth in God's sight, and also, that our worth is realised in a loving community, the family of God. No one stands alone: reconciliation, belonging and rejoicing are still our experiences.
When his opponents called Jesus 'the friend of sinners' they intended it to be an insult, but he took it as a compliment. His mission was prospering! The lost were being sought and found, the sinners saved, to give value to every individual. Without exception, everybody is loved by God, sought by him, and offered a place in his family. In that is life for us all.
So with my belief in this, I pray each of us remembers that Jesus is still walking on this earth amoungst the sinners, because that is where He finds his joy, his lost sheep, and helps them to return to the fold. We should do same.
For, I, Michael Henry Beltran, am also a sinner in my own ways, and I find comfort knowing Jesus is still near to me!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Music Overload
In December I bought a cd with the intention of giving it as a Christmas present. That didn't happen and I think it was meant to be. Last night, when I was finished with all my television watching and chatting online, I decided to listen to this cd, titled "Reflections of Christ" (the soundtrack-check it out!)
I began to ponder the trail of misdeeds and judgement errors I have left behind me in my lifetime. I thought about all the people I've wronged, harmed, hurt, offended or ignored. I thought about actions and words I may have done or said so negatively. Then, I thought about how many times the Savior has come to my undeserving rescue - all the miracles I have benefited from unworthily.
I reflected back to March 6, 1994 when I joined the church and was baptized, how long of road it has been for me!
While these thoughts overwhelmed my mind and tugged on my heart strings, the song "Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing" played. I can't recall ever really hearing this song before, and if I did, I didn't pay much attention. But last night I did and one of the verses really got to me:
"Jesus sought me when a stranger,
wandering from the fold of God;
He, to rescue me from danger,
interposed his precious blood."
I began to gently weep - which isn't hard for me to do - I admit openly that I am quite the sensitive person and am prone to crying when touched or moved. I couldn't help it. Like the song says, "Jesus has sought me even when I have ignored him, left him or was trying to run from him. He calls after me by name, with open arms, waiting to see me and hold and protect me once more "
As my thoughts turned to the Savior the next verse hit me with just as much magnitude:
"O to grace how great a debtor
daily I'm constrained to be!
Let thy goodness, like a fetter,
bind my wandering heart to thee.
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,
prone to leave the God I love;"
I began to silently pray to God:
"Here's my heart,take and seal it,
seal it for thine above."
If that wasn't enough the following song was "Amazing Grace" - so obviously the same feelings swelled up within me. As I continued listening and lying in bed, other songs that sent powerful messages to me were "Be Still, My Soul" and then "Jesus, Lover of My Soul"
At that point all of this withholding of tears and sniffling and thoughts swirling around from my mind to heart through my soul got to me. I started thinking about the conversation I had online with Jenny just an hour earlier then I stopped listening and just let it out-I was compelled to kneel down right there to pray, but being I was lying in bed my laziness overcame my faith.
Once I was able to regain some sense of "normalcy" I pictured in my mind a group of small birds washing themselves in the puddles of fresh rainwater on the ground. Maybe I am weird or taking it the wrong way, but it just seemed to remind me of the Atonement. In some way, it seemed the Spirit was saying - yes, you have sinned and have wronged at times yourself and others - BUT - you can be cleansed, made whole again - Christ has died for you TOO and He will accept you if you will accept Him. Being cleansed like little birds fluttering in puddles of water while the sun shines down on them - it's a beautiful sight.
So, what's this post about? Simply that I know I have a Savior, no denying it, I'll never be perfect, I won't always do whats right, I don't have all the answers but, I do know I have a testimony:
I bear you my testimony that the Atonement of Jesus Christ is for everyone; yes, you and me too. He died for our sins, sicknesses, sadness, trials, tribulations, even our lost dreams and so much more - that's why it is infinite. I know that my Redeemer lives. I know that He knows me by name and loves me still. It's amazing and truly a blessing.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
The Gifts I would Give You This Christmas!
Wow, it's been a couple months since I last blogged. Laziness last month, busy this month!
Being that it is Christmas in two days, I wanted to give everyone of my friends and those I care for something. So I am calling this the
"Gifts That I Would Give"
I have thought about my family and friends and my desire to share something meaningful with you to brighten your Christmas. I realize that some of the gifts I would offer are not really mine to give. Some must be earned to be appreciated; others are His alone to give. Below are my humble gifts to you. I would appreciate hearing what gifts you might give.
PEACE OF MIND....To me, peace is the truest form of happiness. I would give you peace in your heart, contentment in your life, peace amidst the turmoil and trials in your life.
UNDERSTANDING and ACCEPTANCE of Self and Others.....I would give you understanding of your internal and eternal soul, and understanding of Father's will in your life. I would give you an understanding of others and their needs. I would give you an acceptance of self and acceptance of other, even though they may not understand or accept you.
PATIENCE with SELF and OTHERS....I would give you patience with yourself, patience that enables you to not become overwhelmed when you fall short of your expectations, patience with progress, no matter how slow. Patience to know that after every fall, there is power to rise again. I would give you patience with others in their dealings with you. Patience to accept others and their faults.
TOLERANCE... I would give you tolerance for others that you too seek. Being tolerant of yourself will allow others to be tolerant of you.
FRIENDSHIP...I would give you a true friend, one who possesses these gifts, one who loves you unconditionally, one who speaks candidly, one who lifts and encourages you to be your best self, one who never abandons you in you darkest hour, one who makes you smile and laugh, yet is willing to cry with you.
AWARENESS....I would give you awareness of those around you, a sensitivity to their needs, and a willing heart to serve them according to their wants and needs
HONESTY... I would give you honesty with yourself and others even at your weakest moments that you could be honest as you wish others to be honest with you.
WISDOM....I would give you wisdom and discernment to guide your choices, words and actions.
DESIRE...I would give you desire, the desire to grow and improve, desire to be your best self, desire to endure, desire to take steps to improve your situation, desire to do whatever is required to follow Him.
SILENCE...I would give you silence when it is best to say nothing but listen, learn and understand. Silence when you want to react when reaction would only cause uneasiness, silence that you might listen to that still small voice.
And lastly I would give each of you...
RISK...risking yourself and vulnerability that comes with it, actually reaching out and caring about someone else, giving of oneself, and loving another without any thought of whether such love will be reciprocated, just risking that love for the sake of love!
There are many more gifts that I would give. I also am giving these gifts to myself this year.
Most of all this Christmas, I wish to express gratitude for the greatest of all gifts I have been given. I am grateful for the Babe who became my King, Savior, Redeemer, and Friend. I am grateful that He willingly paid the price for my sins. I am grateful for His gift of resurrection. I am grateful for His gospel which points me back to our Father.
Merry Christmas,
Mike B.
Being that it is Christmas in two days, I wanted to give everyone of my friends and those I care for something. So I am calling this the
"Gifts That I Would Give"
I have thought about my family and friends and my desire to share something meaningful with you to brighten your Christmas. I realize that some of the gifts I would offer are not really mine to give. Some must be earned to be appreciated; others are His alone to give. Below are my humble gifts to you. I would appreciate hearing what gifts you might give.
PEACE OF MIND....To me, peace is the truest form of happiness. I would give you peace in your heart, contentment in your life, peace amidst the turmoil and trials in your life.
UNDERSTANDING and ACCEPTANCE of Self and Others.....I would give you understanding of your internal and eternal soul, and understanding of Father's will in your life. I would give you an understanding of others and their needs. I would give you an acceptance of self and acceptance of other, even though they may not understand or accept you.
PATIENCE with SELF and OTHERS....I would give you patience with yourself, patience that enables you to not become overwhelmed when you fall short of your expectations, patience with progress, no matter how slow. Patience to know that after every fall, there is power to rise again. I would give you patience with others in their dealings with you. Patience to accept others and their faults.
TOLERANCE... I would give you tolerance for others that you too seek. Being tolerant of yourself will allow others to be tolerant of you.
FRIENDSHIP...I would give you a true friend, one who possesses these gifts, one who loves you unconditionally, one who speaks candidly, one who lifts and encourages you to be your best self, one who never abandons you in you darkest hour, one who makes you smile and laugh, yet is willing to cry with you.
AWARENESS....I would give you awareness of those around you, a sensitivity to their needs, and a willing heart to serve them according to their wants and needs
HONESTY... I would give you honesty with yourself and others even at your weakest moments that you could be honest as you wish others to be honest with you.
WISDOM....I would give you wisdom and discernment to guide your choices, words and actions.
DESIRE...I would give you desire, the desire to grow and improve, desire to be your best self, desire to endure, desire to take steps to improve your situation, desire to do whatever is required to follow Him.
SILENCE...I would give you silence when it is best to say nothing but listen, learn and understand. Silence when you want to react when reaction would only cause uneasiness, silence that you might listen to that still small voice.
And lastly I would give each of you...
RISK...risking yourself and vulnerability that comes with it, actually reaching out and caring about someone else, giving of oneself, and loving another without any thought of whether such love will be reciprocated, just risking that love for the sake of love!
There are many more gifts that I would give. I also am giving these gifts to myself this year.
Most of all this Christmas, I wish to express gratitude for the greatest of all gifts I have been given. I am grateful for the Babe who became my King, Savior, Redeemer, and Friend. I am grateful that He willingly paid the price for my sins. I am grateful for His gift of resurrection. I am grateful for His gospel which points me back to our Father.
Merry Christmas,
Mike B.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Our Political Parties & Presidental Race
Tonight is our next Presidental debate! I'm not anticipating it too much, but wanted to share where I stand right now on the election......
During the Primary Season for the Democratic Party, I was actually rooting for Hillary Clinton. Then I liked Obama, then back to Hillary....then Obama, then back to Hillary...finally settling on Hillary. I was slightly disappointed when she didn't get the nomination. I followed this Primary race more, because of the historical aspects of it being a African American and a Woman being the front runners. The Republican primaries seemed like every other year. So it didn't peak my interest much. But now this General Election cycle gets me going!
So now we have Obama and McCain. I not registered Democrat or Republican. I am a registered "Independent" or "Unaffiliated". I am not a big believer in voting along party lines or belonging to one party and one party only. I believe in voting for the candidate who at that election time is best representing my views and is aligned with my opinions/beliefs/thoughts/visions at that moment. It can be a democrat or a republican. Just whomever I believe is sided with me on a majority of the issues.
I like to keep an open mind throughout the entire election process. I love to read up on everything. I like to walk into my voting booth on election day, pause for moment and think deeply whom at that moment I feel most aligned with. I never will regret a vote I make as long as I was informed, studied the issues and the candidates, listened intently and didn't allow the media to have any impression on me.
As of today, I am annoyed at the way this election has turned. It's becoming mean spirited, smearing, more accusations, spinning of the facts and truth, leaving out important details when making a point, all that harsh stuff.
I don't understand how people can align with a candidate simply because they are registered that political party. I believe we have had both successful Republican and Democratic Presidents throughout our history.
I heard someone had said we should support Obama because he is for the "middle class"...I think that is funny....There are more issues out there than being middle class.....also, I don't strive to stay middle class....Obama is also against the Rich and believes in taxing the rich higher. I ask...don't we all strive to get rich or make more money in our lives? If we keep taxing people more because they worked hard and got rich or made more money, won't that mean we all would be middle class always? I don't get this thought process of some people.
I wonder how many people know what both parties stand for or beliefs are? Let me share:
Democratic Party: They believe in a strong federal government. They believe in the federal government having strong powers to regulate business and industry. They believe in the federal social services and benefits for the poor, the unemployed, the aged and other groups. They support strongly the separation of church and state. The democratic party supports affirmative action. They support organized labor unions. They support civil and individual rights. The democratic party is also the party that advocated and passed the Income Tax law. They believe in Internationalism for foreign polices by international institutions such as the United Nations. They believe that through the United Nations and other international organizations that we be policed or get approvals by as opposed to the U.S. interests always first. They support gun control.
Republican Party: They believe in individual States Rights. They believe the federal government should give more power to each State to govern. They believe in minimum federal government interference. They believe in reduced taxes as a means of stimulating the economy and advancing individual economic freedoms. They opposed alot of government and tax payer funded social programs. They oppose affirmative action. They support business owners rights to regulate their business as opposed to strengthening the rights of workers (labor unions) The Republican Party supports a strong national defense and pursuit of U.S. National security interests first even if it is in opposition to the views of the international community. They oppose gun control.
Now, with this understand of what each political party stands for let me share my thoughts:
I think both parties have great views and policies.
With the democratic support of a strong federal government in our lives, I oppose this. I believe some of the social programs that the democratic party created is very good, however with all these government social programs to help the poor, unemployed, etc., it created higher taxes for us. The democratic party is great at saying the Republicans raise taxes, but they fail to mention that with all the created social programs it takes money to run and thus it comes from the people through taxes.
I say, why should my next door neighbor get a year or 6 months worth of unemployment checks because he got fired from a job, or quit a job or got layed off? Many people take advantage of this benefit. The same with the welfare system. This program, created by the democratic party had great intentions and I believe it is important to have, however there are not enough tight regulations on this social program and it ends up costing every American tax payer..you and me! We have to keep paying for this program so others can take advantage of it. We all know people become too dependent on welfare, food stamps, etc. It creates dishonesty in people because naturally we all like "free" stuff...but should free stuff be your existence or way of life? The Republican Party believes in individual economic freedom, which means you should get to a point to be economically self sufficient and free of any government assistance. Can we be with all these taxes paying all these social programs that don't have enough regulations on them? Interesting...lets all take the Democratic view:
No need to work hard or go to school. The Government will feed & house us by stealing from the successful who worked hard, studier hard to make their own money and way. So we can mooch off the government & we will all live happily ever after
I support the democratic parties views on civil rights....everyone should have the same rights and not be discriminated against because of race, gender, sex, or handicap.
The democratic party supports Affirmative Action. I don't period. I don't believe there should be preference given to anyone because of their race or gender. Every job or college acceptance should be based on qualifications. PERIOD!! Affirmative Action is about people becoming quotas and percentages. The Republican Party strongly opposes affirmative action..like me, they believe you being hired at job, or accepted into any college or program should only be based on your qualifications.
The Republican party opposes organized labor unions and limited employees' rights. They believe in the business owners rights first. This issue I am almost on the fence with, but lean slightly to opposing labor unions. First off I, as a small business owner, do believe that I should be able to have my business and employees run my way. I don't believe in some union telling me when I need to give my employees a raise or more benefits. I do believe though that employees should also have their rights to fair wage increases and benefits and not allow some business owners to take advantage of employees. So with this, I see pros and cons to it. But labor unions themselves tend to take advantage of their members/employees as well.
The Republican party believes in a strong national defense with a belief our nation comes first and we don't have to have the support of other nations to go to war or to attack if there is ample evidence we are in danger. The democratic party believes these issues should first go before the international community known as the United Nations and we should get their approval first. Well, I think this speaks for itself...Our Security first not what some countries leaders or representatives think!
Oh on gun control, I side with the Democrats. I support strong gun control laws.
Sarcastically I say:
Im saving up for a nuclear proof-bunker in case McCain gets elected.
And
I'm quitting my job and going on welfare, food stamps & free health care if Obama gets elected.
So, even though I support more Republican views, I still support some democratic views and this is why I call myself an Independent! So vote for the one who most represents your views. Remember you will never find a candidate you will agree with 100% of the time. Study the candidates and ALL the issues not one or two!
Hope you got some insight here!
During the Primary Season for the Democratic Party, I was actually rooting for Hillary Clinton. Then I liked Obama, then back to Hillary....then Obama, then back to Hillary...finally settling on Hillary. I was slightly disappointed when she didn't get the nomination. I followed this Primary race more, because of the historical aspects of it being a African American and a Woman being the front runners. The Republican primaries seemed like every other year. So it didn't peak my interest much. But now this General Election cycle gets me going!
So now we have Obama and McCain. I not registered Democrat or Republican. I am a registered "Independent" or "Unaffiliated". I am not a big believer in voting along party lines or belonging to one party and one party only. I believe in voting for the candidate who at that election time is best representing my views and is aligned with my opinions/beliefs/thoughts/visions at that moment. It can be a democrat or a republican. Just whomever I believe is sided with me on a majority of the issues.
I like to keep an open mind throughout the entire election process. I love to read up on everything. I like to walk into my voting booth on election day, pause for moment and think deeply whom at that moment I feel most aligned with. I never will regret a vote I make as long as I was informed, studied the issues and the candidates, listened intently and didn't allow the media to have any impression on me.
As of today, I am annoyed at the way this election has turned. It's becoming mean spirited, smearing, more accusations, spinning of the facts and truth, leaving out important details when making a point, all that harsh stuff.
I don't understand how people can align with a candidate simply because they are registered that political party. I believe we have had both successful Republican and Democratic Presidents throughout our history.
I heard someone had said we should support Obama because he is for the "middle class"...I think that is funny....There are more issues out there than being middle class.....also, I don't strive to stay middle class....Obama is also against the Rich and believes in taxing the rich higher. I ask...don't we all strive to get rich or make more money in our lives? If we keep taxing people more because they worked hard and got rich or made more money, won't that mean we all would be middle class always? I don't get this thought process of some people.
I wonder how many people know what both parties stand for or beliefs are? Let me share:
Democratic Party: They believe in a strong federal government. They believe in the federal government having strong powers to regulate business and industry. They believe in the federal social services and benefits for the poor, the unemployed, the aged and other groups. They support strongly the separation of church and state. The democratic party supports affirmative action. They support organized labor unions. They support civil and individual rights. The democratic party is also the party that advocated and passed the Income Tax law. They believe in Internationalism for foreign polices by international institutions such as the United Nations. They believe that through the United Nations and other international organizations that we be policed or get approvals by as opposed to the U.S. interests always first. They support gun control.
Republican Party: They believe in individual States Rights. They believe the federal government should give more power to each State to govern. They believe in minimum federal government interference. They believe in reduced taxes as a means of stimulating the economy and advancing individual economic freedoms. They opposed alot of government and tax payer funded social programs. They oppose affirmative action. They support business owners rights to regulate their business as opposed to strengthening the rights of workers (labor unions) The Republican Party supports a strong national defense and pursuit of U.S. National security interests first even if it is in opposition to the views of the international community. They oppose gun control.
Now, with this understand of what each political party stands for let me share my thoughts:
I think both parties have great views and policies.
With the democratic support of a strong federal government in our lives, I oppose this. I believe some of the social programs that the democratic party created is very good, however with all these government social programs to help the poor, unemployed, etc., it created higher taxes for us. The democratic party is great at saying the Republicans raise taxes, but they fail to mention that with all the created social programs it takes money to run and thus it comes from the people through taxes.
I say, why should my next door neighbor get a year or 6 months worth of unemployment checks because he got fired from a job, or quit a job or got layed off? Many people take advantage of this benefit. The same with the welfare system. This program, created by the democratic party had great intentions and I believe it is important to have, however there are not enough tight regulations on this social program and it ends up costing every American tax payer..you and me! We have to keep paying for this program so others can take advantage of it. We all know people become too dependent on welfare, food stamps, etc. It creates dishonesty in people because naturally we all like "free" stuff...but should free stuff be your existence or way of life? The Republican Party believes in individual economic freedom, which means you should get to a point to be economically self sufficient and free of any government assistance. Can we be with all these taxes paying all these social programs that don't have enough regulations on them? Interesting...lets all take the Democratic view:
No need to work hard or go to school. The Government will feed & house us by stealing from the successful who worked hard, studier hard to make their own money and way. So we can mooch off the government & we will all live happily ever after
I support the democratic parties views on civil rights....everyone should have the same rights and not be discriminated against because of race, gender, sex, or handicap.
The democratic party supports Affirmative Action. I don't period. I don't believe there should be preference given to anyone because of their race or gender. Every job or college acceptance should be based on qualifications. PERIOD!! Affirmative Action is about people becoming quotas and percentages. The Republican Party strongly opposes affirmative action..like me, they believe you being hired at job, or accepted into any college or program should only be based on your qualifications.
The Republican party opposes organized labor unions and limited employees' rights. They believe in the business owners rights first. This issue I am almost on the fence with, but lean slightly to opposing labor unions. First off I, as a small business owner, do believe that I should be able to have my business and employees run my way. I don't believe in some union telling me when I need to give my employees a raise or more benefits. I do believe though that employees should also have their rights to fair wage increases and benefits and not allow some business owners to take advantage of employees. So with this, I see pros and cons to it. But labor unions themselves tend to take advantage of their members/employees as well.
The Republican party believes in a strong national defense with a belief our nation comes first and we don't have to have the support of other nations to go to war or to attack if there is ample evidence we are in danger. The democratic party believes these issues should first go before the international community known as the United Nations and we should get their approval first. Well, I think this speaks for itself...Our Security first not what some countries leaders or representatives think!
Oh on gun control, I side with the Democrats. I support strong gun control laws.
Sarcastically I say:
Im saving up for a nuclear proof-bunker in case McCain gets elected.
And
I'm quitting my job and going on welfare, food stamps & free health care if Obama gets elected.
So, even though I support more Republican views, I still support some democratic views and this is why I call myself an Independent! So vote for the one who most represents your views. Remember you will never find a candidate you will agree with 100% of the time. Study the candidates and ALL the issues not one or two!
Hope you got some insight here!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
99 Things about Me..you tell me # 100!
Ok, so here goes, I was tagged by two people for two lists, Lys, your 6 quirks are listed in here so this counts for yours! Go to the end cuz I've tagged a few people...and I promise this will be the only "Tag" I will ever do because I'm not into these "tags" that much! Too much thinking on my part!..haha
1. I've lived in 4 States: California, Florida, Hawaii, and Utah
2. I've lived in our Nations Capital! Washington, D.C.
3. The water that collects in the sour cream container, after it’s been opened and has been sitting in the fridge for a few days, really grosses me out.
4. The first time I said a swear word my grandma washed my mouth out with soap and to this day, getting even shampoo in my mouth in the shower reminds me of that day
5. I absolutely HATE to vomit! Seriously vomitting makes me want to vomit again!
6. My favorite sport to watch is tennis, followed by basketball.
7. I am a Reality Show Junkie!
8. I live, and I mean LIVE for Thursday night Survivor episodes!
9. I watch the "Today" show on NBC almost every morning
10. I have one small tattoo
11. I enjoy being alone most of the time.
12. I want to be cremated (after I die, of course).
13. I have an obession with Evian water!
14. My favorite movie of all time is "Steel Magnolias" because that movie cracks me up especially the funeral scene and only recently I read that Olympia Dukakis and Shirley Mclaine improvised that scene! REMARKABLY FUNNY!
15. My least favorite household chore: Folding Laundry.
16. My favorite household chore: Cleaning the Kitchen.
17. I love backgammon
18. I love to play board games with family and friends.
19. Person I most admire: Mother Teresa
20. Persons I most despise: Racists
21. My first real job: 15 years old, dishwasher at an old folks home.
22. I've never shot a gun.
23. I've had a gun pointed at me before. (where I worked we were held up)
24. I almost never have nightmares
25. I have slept with the same black blanket for the past 13 years now, even when traveling I used to bring it along!
26. My family calls me Michael, my friends call me Mike
27. If I could have any talent, it would be: The ability to draw.
28. The only foreign country I have visited: Mexico.
29. Where I’ll go when I will visit a foreign country: Monaco, Greece, London, Paris, South Africa
30. States in which I’ve been cited for speeding: California, Texas, Nevada and Florida.
31. I own my own bowling ball and shoes but hardly use them.
32. Word I feel I most overuse: “actually”
33. I love American History, Government and Politics
34. I have never eaten at a Seafood Restaurant. And never will
35. I don't believe in expensive shampoo. 99 cent shampoo works just fine!
36. I own over 20 pairs of Puma shoes, but wear only 3 pairs
37. I have had one close friend die.
38. I have absolutely no interest in animation or video games.
39. I don't like my picture taken.
40. I don't hate anyone, but there is one person that makes me consider it.
41. If someone asks me what my favorite color is I usually say blue.
42. I don't really have a favorite color.
43. I won't wear anything pink, yellow or orange.
44. I never wear clothing that has wording or brand names on the front or back, with the exception of Puma.
45. I know CPR
46. Sometimes I practice the steps of CPR in my head because I'm afraid I'll forget them the one time I need them.
47. I hope to NEVER have to do CPR on someone.
48. I have never ridden a motorcycle.
49. I can not rollerblade.
50. I wish I spoke another language
51. I love my Video IPod
52. I talk to myself, especially when I'm alone in the car and forget to turn the radio on.
53. I use the postage paid envelopes I get in my junk mail to mail junk mail back to the people that send it to me. That's the little devil in me!
54. I don't like chocolate cake with chocolate frosting.
55. If I use your bathroom I will note how clean or dirty it is.
56. If I tell you that I'll call you, eventually I will.
57. Every morning when I wake up, my first thought is "time?"
58. I think one of most peaceful experiences in life is waking up in the middle of a quiet night in a home where those you care about are safely sleeping.
59. I don't ever wear jeans.
60. I am a light sleeper.
61. I've bought far too many laptops in life!
62. I believe it’s your choice whether or not you wash your hands after using the bathroom, just don’t touch me if you choose not to.
63. If you don’t have an iPod I really think you should get one
64. I won’t eat an apple unless it has been cored and sliced
65. I’d rather be cold than hot.
66. I like to be barefoot.
67. I do have regrets in life.
68. I don't like cats (shadow is an exception!)
69. Never been in a fistfight
70. Love the smell of bleach
71. Hated spinach as a kid, love it as an adult!
72. I love to be sarcastic.
73. Sometimes my sarcasm can get me in trouble.
74. Quit many of jobs, been fired from one!
75. Had my first drink of alcohol at age 14 with some cousins...
76. Love to play blackjack!
77. I have been to Niagra Falls and was afraid of falling over the railing..hahaha
78. I dislike people that swear when in a disagreement.
79. I hate fish, but love tuna.
80. I get ansy in large crowds.
81. I dislike "window shopping" or just going to a store or mall to walk around.
82. I have a fear of alligators, lions and pitbulls.
83. I really wish I could find an old tv show that was on for one season back like 20 years ago called "A Year In The Life"...I really really liked it!
84. I want to die broke. Seriously, If I die with money it means I've failed to make a difference in helping eradicate world hunger!
85. No one should ever go hungry and that is probably what makes me sad the most to think about someone hungry.
86. I hate to think so much.
87. In the eighties I used to wear Duran Duran and Adam Ant buttons!
88. I seriously dressed the eighties style for a time being...glad there are no pictures to prove it!
89. I sometimes which I were taller.
90. I don't like reading Shakespare.
91. I prefer comedies over dramas.
92. I once worked on a cruise ship.
93. When I was a kid, I used to wish I was a "wonder twin" from the superheros comics.
94. I remember standing in line the first day the very first Stars Wars came out with my brother, sister, two cousins and grandma in Montclair, CA!
95. My earliest childhood memories I can recall start at age 8 for some reason.
96. Seaworld is my "happiest place on Earth"...not that mouse place!
97. I ran away from home when I was 14.....didn't go to far!
98. I have volunteered on Political campaigns before..
99. I dream of being on the Price of Right and playing Plinko!! haha yeah I said it!
Ok there you have it...now tell me number 100 and lets see, I tag Lys, Jen, Kat, Ana, Mika, Jaylynn, Selena, Sarah, dang, everyone on my list!
1. I've lived in 4 States: California, Florida, Hawaii, and Utah
2. I've lived in our Nations Capital! Washington, D.C.
3. The water that collects in the sour cream container, after it’s been opened and has been sitting in the fridge for a few days, really grosses me out.
4. The first time I said a swear word my grandma washed my mouth out with soap and to this day, getting even shampoo in my mouth in the shower reminds me of that day
5. I absolutely HATE to vomit! Seriously vomitting makes me want to vomit again!
6. My favorite sport to watch is tennis, followed by basketball.
7. I am a Reality Show Junkie!
8. I live, and I mean LIVE for Thursday night Survivor episodes!
9. I watch the "Today" show on NBC almost every morning
10. I have one small tattoo
11. I enjoy being alone most of the time.
12. I want to be cremated (after I die, of course).
13. I have an obession with Evian water!
14. My favorite movie of all time is "Steel Magnolias" because that movie cracks me up especially the funeral scene and only recently I read that Olympia Dukakis and Shirley Mclaine improvised that scene! REMARKABLY FUNNY!
15. My least favorite household chore: Folding Laundry.
16. My favorite household chore: Cleaning the Kitchen.
17. I love backgammon
18. I love to play board games with family and friends.
19. Person I most admire: Mother Teresa
20. Persons I most despise: Racists
21. My first real job: 15 years old, dishwasher at an old folks home.
22. I've never shot a gun.
23. I've had a gun pointed at me before. (where I worked we were held up)
24. I almost never have nightmares
25. I have slept with the same black blanket for the past 13 years now, even when traveling I used to bring it along!
26. My family calls me Michael, my friends call me Mike
27. If I could have any talent, it would be: The ability to draw.
28. The only foreign country I have visited: Mexico.
29. Where I’ll go when I will visit a foreign country: Monaco, Greece, London, Paris, South Africa
30. States in which I’ve been cited for speeding: California, Texas, Nevada and Florida.
31. I own my own bowling ball and shoes but hardly use them.
32. Word I feel I most overuse: “actually”
33. I love American History, Government and Politics
34. I have never eaten at a Seafood Restaurant. And never will
35. I don't believe in expensive shampoo. 99 cent shampoo works just fine!
36. I own over 20 pairs of Puma shoes, but wear only 3 pairs
37. I have had one close friend die.
38. I have absolutely no interest in animation or video games.
39. I don't like my picture taken.
40. I don't hate anyone, but there is one person that makes me consider it.
41. If someone asks me what my favorite color is I usually say blue.
42. I don't really have a favorite color.
43. I won't wear anything pink, yellow or orange.
44. I never wear clothing that has wording or brand names on the front or back, with the exception of Puma.
45. I know CPR
46. Sometimes I practice the steps of CPR in my head because I'm afraid I'll forget them the one time I need them.
47. I hope to NEVER have to do CPR on someone.
48. I have never ridden a motorcycle.
49. I can not rollerblade.
50. I wish I spoke another language
51. I love my Video IPod
52. I talk to myself, especially when I'm alone in the car and forget to turn the radio on.
53. I use the postage paid envelopes I get in my junk mail to mail junk mail back to the people that send it to me. That's the little devil in me!
54. I don't like chocolate cake with chocolate frosting.
55. If I use your bathroom I will note how clean or dirty it is.
56. If I tell you that I'll call you, eventually I will.
57. Every morning when I wake up, my first thought is "time?"
58. I think one of most peaceful experiences in life is waking up in the middle of a quiet night in a home where those you care about are safely sleeping.
59. I don't ever wear jeans.
60. I am a light sleeper.
61. I've bought far too many laptops in life!
62. I believe it’s your choice whether or not you wash your hands after using the bathroom, just don’t touch me if you choose not to.
63. If you don’t have an iPod I really think you should get one
64. I won’t eat an apple unless it has been cored and sliced
65. I’d rather be cold than hot.
66. I like to be barefoot.
67. I do have regrets in life.
68. I don't like cats (shadow is an exception!)
69. Never been in a fistfight
70. Love the smell of bleach
71. Hated spinach as a kid, love it as an adult!
72. I love to be sarcastic.
73. Sometimes my sarcasm can get me in trouble.
74. Quit many of jobs, been fired from one!
75. Had my first drink of alcohol at age 14 with some cousins...
76. Love to play blackjack!
77. I have been to Niagra Falls and was afraid of falling over the railing..hahaha
78. I dislike people that swear when in a disagreement.
79. I hate fish, but love tuna.
80. I get ansy in large crowds.
81. I dislike "window shopping" or just going to a store or mall to walk around.
82. I have a fear of alligators, lions and pitbulls.
83. I really wish I could find an old tv show that was on for one season back like 20 years ago called "A Year In The Life"...I really really liked it!
84. I want to die broke. Seriously, If I die with money it means I've failed to make a difference in helping eradicate world hunger!
85. No one should ever go hungry and that is probably what makes me sad the most to think about someone hungry.
86. I hate to think so much.
87. In the eighties I used to wear Duran Duran and Adam Ant buttons!
88. I seriously dressed the eighties style for a time being...glad there are no pictures to prove it!
89. I sometimes which I were taller.
90. I don't like reading Shakespare.
91. I prefer comedies over dramas.
92. I once worked on a cruise ship.
93. When I was a kid, I used to wish I was a "wonder twin" from the superheros comics.
94. I remember standing in line the first day the very first Stars Wars came out with my brother, sister, two cousins and grandma in Montclair, CA!
95. My earliest childhood memories I can recall start at age 8 for some reason.
96. Seaworld is my "happiest place on Earth"...not that mouse place!
97. I ran away from home when I was 14.....didn't go to far!
98. I have volunteered on Political campaigns before..
99. I dream of being on the Price of Right and playing Plinko!! haha yeah I said it!
Ok there you have it...now tell me number 100 and lets see, I tag Lys, Jen, Kat, Ana, Mika, Jaylynn, Selena, Sarah, dang, everyone on my list!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
YUMMY CREPES!!!
THATS A PIC OF MY PLATE OF CREPES!!!
So, I was hungry and craving something rich, sweet and simple...so Tiare came over and I made us some Crepes!!.....They hit the spot...and Tiare ate 3 more than me!! HAHAHA........Was totally thinking of Jen when I was eating them!!
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Crazy Busy....at least I think so!
The thing that sucks about any type of journal or record of my life I've attempted is that when nothing really interesting is going on I have all kinds of entries, but then when there is so much to write about there is so little time to write about it.
So it's been awhile since I've blogged and I have so much I can say, yet don't know where to start? Politics--? I can say so much about the Presidental race right now!
Well, lets start with this little do-gooder I did last night!
So a few weeks back I bought two tickets to the Alicia Keys concert that is tonight. Paid $160 bucks for two tickets, and though I like her, I'm not like a fanatic where it's a must see! I've actually seen her perform live before, so I wasn't over eager to go. Anyhow, I knew Tiare loves Alicia Keys so I bought the tickets with the intent of taking her. She was ecstatic and has been. So last night she is at my apartment using my computer then so goes up to her apartment to clean. To make a long story short and not spill all her "beans" per say, I knew she would love to go with this one kid she calls her "crush". So I go up to her apartment & ask if there is anyone she would like to go with in my place, as I "forgot" my new tv shows were starting tomorrow night. She was like "really? Mike? are you sure?" I was, she wanted to invite her "crush" but she refused to call him and ask him. I told her I saw on her bebo page he left a comment about how lucky she was to be going to the Alicia Keys concert. She ran down to my apartment to use the computer and logged on to her bebo to see he really did. She got all giddy. Well, it took ALOT of prompting and scenerios to have her work up the courage to call him. After one hour of talking her into it, she finally goes into my bathroom, shuts the door, calls him and asks him. She came out of the bathroom all excited, giddy, ecstatic and smiling. She was so cute she said "My stomach was nervous the entire time" So I gave up my ticket to her so she can take her "crush"--that is what she calls him--oh to be 17 years old again!!
Next topic.....
So I love our political process and anyone that knows me well, knows I can converse for long periods of time on politics.
I am registered an Independent. I believe that being independent does not behold me to any one party or their platforms. I believe in voting for the candidate who best represents my views. I have voted for both democrats and republicans. I consider myself a moderate.
During the Primary season, I was going back and forth on who I was going to support. From a democrat to a republican. I have enjoyed so much this Presidential election season. To see an African-American and a Woman being two front runners, to seeing a woman chosen as the first Republican Vice Presidential candidate. WOW...come November history will be made no matter who wins and I get to witness it and vote!!
Well lets start with Barack Obama--I must admit when he first entered and all the media was all over him, I was impressed! But then reality set in and I actually had to remember not to be impressed with a good speech, but with their views, stands, and history. When I really studied up on him, I realized that though he can inspire people through his speeches and charisma. I wasn't too sure he is yet ready to lead this country. I personally thought he needed alittle more experience......but I definitely was not going to jump on the bandwagon of "hype" as I call it just because he was "fresh and young" and his popularity was soaring!
Then there was John McCain. I like him. But again, he represents to be everything that Washington is failing at. He has been a US Senator for over 20 years. In Washington. Though he is only one vote, it's still an important vote. Every vote counts right? So he is a war hero, a maverick he calls himself. He is going to change Washington. Yet, he has been in Washington for so many years...why hasn't he been at least attempting that earlier?
So Barack picks Joe Biden. I was alittle shocked I must say. Once because Joe Biden started last year for his own run at being President and got he got around 9000 votes before dropping out. No one was voting for him then, he is quoted as saying back then he wasn't interested in being Vice President, then 9 months later here he is accepting the offer to be Vice President.. What??? So I found it amusing while watching the Democratic Convention how everyone was so supportive, yet just 9 months earlier, no one cared when he was running for the Democratic Presidential nomination. Interesting wouldn't you say? He's still a good guy, but again, he's running with Barack on a platform of "Change", yet Joe Biden has been in the Senate for over 30 Years! Why didn't Barack pick a Washington Outsider if he really wants Change?
NOW....Sarah Palin! WOW talk about a shocker! I, like 99.9% of the country never heard of this woman before. But I kinda like her. One, because she shows that our Political Process is open for ANY American! Her she was 3 years ago a Mayor of a small town in Alaska, decided to run for Governor against her own parties sitting Governor and she won! Now she is hand picked to run as Vice President! Though I get nervous that she doesn't have enough experience, I realize it evens out with Barack. She's young, like Barack. Am I sure about her yet? Not really, but I think she is the only candidate that can really say she is a Washington Outsider and looking for Change!
So, I won't vote by party. I will wait for the debates next month, see how all the candidates do, how they answer, what they say about the issues, who aligns with me more on my top concerns. Remember no candidate will I ever have a 100% view with, but as each year our world changes, I am looking for the candidate who can tackle those issues facing me, us, the world at the moment.
Experience? I don't necessarily believe you need experience to be President. Really, who has experience to be President, except former Presidents! The world is constantly changing. Like any job, the best experience comes from doing the job first hand. Remember there are many Washington Insiders that advise the President and Vice President, inform them. So it's not like someone is going into the Oval Office blindly pushing the "Red" button to start a Nuclear War!
Right now, I am just glad to be a part of history in the making and whomever I vote for on November 4, 2008, win or lose, I will still be alive and still trying to make a difference in the world, earning a wage, and enjoying my freedoms granted to me and every American citizen over 200 years ago.
I was listening the other day to Bob Marley's "Redemption Song" about 20 times. I know I've heard this song before, but for some reason it's meaning finally struck me.
It's almost as if it's a song of hope for people in the struggling situations, a hope to get out and live a better life.
There is a line that goes "Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery; none but ourselves can free our mind." Too many people do not realize that much (if not all) of their current situations is due to their agency - their ability to choose for themselves. When all is said and done, it all comes down to choice. Too often, we wait around for someone else to come around and make the change for us, when in reality no one else will do that. It's up to us.
Perhaps that is the "mental slavery" Bob Marley speaks of: not realizing that we have a choice; that the power is within us to make the change. And until that occurs, we cannot sing those redemption songs.
Well, if you got to the end of this blog, I congratulate you! It was long...3 weeks long!!
So it's been awhile since I've blogged and I have so much I can say, yet don't know where to start? Politics--? I can say so much about the Presidental race right now!
Well, lets start with this little do-gooder I did last night!
So a few weeks back I bought two tickets to the Alicia Keys concert that is tonight. Paid $160 bucks for two tickets, and though I like her, I'm not like a fanatic where it's a must see! I've actually seen her perform live before, so I wasn't over eager to go. Anyhow, I knew Tiare loves Alicia Keys so I bought the tickets with the intent of taking her. She was ecstatic and has been. So last night she is at my apartment using my computer then so goes up to her apartment to clean. To make a long story short and not spill all her "beans" per say, I knew she would love to go with this one kid she calls her "crush". So I go up to her apartment & ask if there is anyone she would like to go with in my place, as I "forgot" my new tv shows were starting tomorrow night. She was like "really? Mike? are you sure?" I was, she wanted to invite her "crush" but she refused to call him and ask him. I told her I saw on her bebo page he left a comment about how lucky she was to be going to the Alicia Keys concert. She ran down to my apartment to use the computer and logged on to her bebo to see he really did. She got all giddy. Well, it took ALOT of prompting and scenerios to have her work up the courage to call him. After one hour of talking her into it, she finally goes into my bathroom, shuts the door, calls him and asks him. She came out of the bathroom all excited, giddy, ecstatic and smiling. She was so cute she said "My stomach was nervous the entire time" So I gave up my ticket to her so she can take her "crush"--that is what she calls him--oh to be 17 years old again!!
Next topic.....
So I love our political process and anyone that knows me well, knows I can converse for long periods of time on politics.
I am registered an Independent. I believe that being independent does not behold me to any one party or their platforms. I believe in voting for the candidate who best represents my views. I have voted for both democrats and republicans. I consider myself a moderate.
During the Primary season, I was going back and forth on who I was going to support. From a democrat to a republican. I have enjoyed so much this Presidential election season. To see an African-American and a Woman being two front runners, to seeing a woman chosen as the first Republican Vice Presidential candidate. WOW...come November history will be made no matter who wins and I get to witness it and vote!!
Well lets start with Barack Obama--I must admit when he first entered and all the media was all over him, I was impressed! But then reality set in and I actually had to remember not to be impressed with a good speech, but with their views, stands, and history. When I really studied up on him, I realized that though he can inspire people through his speeches and charisma. I wasn't too sure he is yet ready to lead this country. I personally thought he needed alittle more experience......but I definitely was not going to jump on the bandwagon of "hype" as I call it just because he was "fresh and young" and his popularity was soaring!
Then there was John McCain. I like him. But again, he represents to be everything that Washington is failing at. He has been a US Senator for over 20 years. In Washington. Though he is only one vote, it's still an important vote. Every vote counts right? So he is a war hero, a maverick he calls himself. He is going to change Washington. Yet, he has been in Washington for so many years...why hasn't he been at least attempting that earlier?
So Barack picks Joe Biden. I was alittle shocked I must say. Once because Joe Biden started last year for his own run at being President and got he got around 9000 votes before dropping out. No one was voting for him then, he is quoted as saying back then he wasn't interested in being Vice President, then 9 months later here he is accepting the offer to be Vice President.. What??? So I found it amusing while watching the Democratic Convention how everyone was so supportive, yet just 9 months earlier, no one cared when he was running for the Democratic Presidential nomination. Interesting wouldn't you say? He's still a good guy, but again, he's running with Barack on a platform of "Change", yet Joe Biden has been in the Senate for over 30 Years! Why didn't Barack pick a Washington Outsider if he really wants Change?
NOW....Sarah Palin! WOW talk about a shocker! I, like 99.9% of the country never heard of this woman before. But I kinda like her. One, because she shows that our Political Process is open for ANY American! Her she was 3 years ago a Mayor of a small town in Alaska, decided to run for Governor against her own parties sitting Governor and she won! Now she is hand picked to run as Vice President! Though I get nervous that she doesn't have enough experience, I realize it evens out with Barack. She's young, like Barack. Am I sure about her yet? Not really, but I think she is the only candidate that can really say she is a Washington Outsider and looking for Change!
So, I won't vote by party. I will wait for the debates next month, see how all the candidates do, how they answer, what they say about the issues, who aligns with me more on my top concerns. Remember no candidate will I ever have a 100% view with, but as each year our world changes, I am looking for the candidate who can tackle those issues facing me, us, the world at the moment.
Experience? I don't necessarily believe you need experience to be President. Really, who has experience to be President, except former Presidents! The world is constantly changing. Like any job, the best experience comes from doing the job first hand. Remember there are many Washington Insiders that advise the President and Vice President, inform them. So it's not like someone is going into the Oval Office blindly pushing the "Red" button to start a Nuclear War!
Right now, I am just glad to be a part of history in the making and whomever I vote for on November 4, 2008, win or lose, I will still be alive and still trying to make a difference in the world, earning a wage, and enjoying my freedoms granted to me and every American citizen over 200 years ago.
I was listening the other day to Bob Marley's "Redemption Song" about 20 times. I know I've heard this song before, but for some reason it's meaning finally struck me.
It's almost as if it's a song of hope for people in the struggling situations, a hope to get out and live a better life.
There is a line that goes "Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery; none but ourselves can free our mind." Too many people do not realize that much (if not all) of their current situations is due to their agency - their ability to choose for themselves. When all is said and done, it all comes down to choice. Too often, we wait around for someone else to come around and make the change for us, when in reality no one else will do that. It's up to us.
Perhaps that is the "mental slavery" Bob Marley speaks of: not realizing that we have a choice; that the power is within us to make the change. And until that occurs, we cannot sing those redemption songs.
Well, if you got to the end of this blog, I congratulate you! It was long...3 weeks long!!
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Amazing Kids!
These past 3 days I have had a nice laugh and been moved by kids...
Friday night I was catering a wedding. The bride was Tongan and the Groom was white. So with this mix the guests were half and half. During the start of the buffet dinner there is this loud crash. A kid dropped a china plate. I didn't think much of it at the moment, didn't know if it was a Tongan kid or white kid that dropped it.
A few minutes later I am standing by the buffet as people are getting food. Then there is this crash sound again! Another kid dropped his plate! Suddenly in front of me this white boy maybe 9 years old looks out to see who dropped the plate...then he blurts out loud to his mom "Man, is only OUR side of the family who has problems holding plates?"
It was SO funny to hear!! I laughed at this kids sincerity and concern in his voice! Another woman in line, a Tongan woman made a comment in English to another guest in line "Tongan kids know what will happen if they drop their food! " Then they started laughing.
For some reason that kid made my Friday night!
Saturday: Catering another party....there is this nice staircase and I am standing at the bottom of it. At the top there is a family. I'm watching them. The little boy maybe 4 years is standing at the top sort of blocking the way. His mom is behind him, I didn't notice what she did, but then suddenly the boy shouts out "Mom you pushed me! That's not nice!".....I looked up to see this little boy looking upset at his mom and then his mom says "No, I wasn't pushing you, I was trying to get you to move faster"
This little boy, not missing a beat...says "no you were pushing me and I'm going slow because I don't want to fall down the stairs but you almost made me".....the mom said "I'm sorry, just keep going"....the little boy was so cute he then said "Ok, just don't push people mom that's not nice"
The mom nodded then her and I made eye contact and I smiled and she said to me "kids"...it was so funny to me.....Made my Saturday night!
Sunday.......at church I am sitting in the back seats towards a door. The end of the last hymn is being sung. In the seats in front of me an elderly woman gets up, she is the one saying the closing prayer. When she stands, I notice her cane, she begins her descent to the stand, walking very slowly. The music ends. She is slowly walking up to the stand still. The room is silent. Suddenly this boy about 8 years old sitting in the back middle seats gets up and starts running towards the lady, the mom loudly whispers his name "Colton, come back here"...you can hear her. The boy stops turns around and says "mom she needs help up the stairs!"......WOW....the entire congregation hears this and suddenly you hear a collective "ahhhhh"...and we watch the boy go to the elderly lady, and grabs her arm that she isn't using the cane for and walks with her to the stand, helps her up the stand, then STANDS at the bottom to wait for her to be done. The woman says the closing prayer and everyone is still amazed at this boy, the bishopric and stake presidency (we had ward conference) are sitting with the biggest smiles on their faces watching this boy help this woman back to her seat. I look over towars the boys mom and notice she has tears coming down her face! The lady gets to her seat and boys runs back to his seat and his mom puts her arm around him. The Bishop stands to dismiss the teachers to their classrooms as normal, but first he says: "What we all just had the privilege to witness with the actions of Colton, I pray we all may be more humble and alert for our neighbors, what a great way to end our ward conference....to see Christlike action take place before our eyes"...
I admit, I had a few tears in my eyes, and I am sure every other male, young or old, sitting in the Chapel felt alittle humbled and shamed for not taking the same action as this little boy did.
WOW....Kids are amazing!!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Rejuvenated!!!
WOW......I was up early today....5:10am to be exact!! I went to bed around 11pm and I knew I was really tired but didn't think I'd get a really good sleep, but I did!! I must've slept heavy and deep because I just woke right up feeling rejuvenated, energized and ready to take on the world!!!Strange...as happy as I feel right now, I have lots to do today and I'm worried that say in the next 5 hours I am going to want to take a nap!!
I've always been a morning a person, because I love to watch the Today show the first half hour of the Today show always makes me feel as though I know everything that is going on in the world news!! I usually wake up around 6 or 6:30am, diddle dally around my apartment, get a bowl of cereal and read until 7am for the Today Show....so mornings are my thing, but 5:10am??? WOW...I just don't know what to do with this extra time!!
Oh, I haven't been drinking sodas lately and for the first time since like 1990, I am actually doing it and succeeding!! I haven't had a soda now for exactly ONE WEEK today!! Congrats to myself!! Last Monday, August 11 was my last soda! I have bought juices and water and that is what my fridge is filled with. I love Apple Juice and Orange Juice are my favorites and Grape Juice comes in close too! I was so proud of myself, last night I went out to dinner and I didn't even get a soda! I succeeded!!
Anyhow, I knew if I made it one week, I would then succeed, because the first week is always the hardest, but I actually never had a desire for a soda either this week and I love it!
So, if anyone is looking to give something up....you can do it!!! Just never think about it and don't have it around you and it is so much easier!!
Sunday, August 17, 2008
The Glass House
We've all heard the saying about those living in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. I got to thinking today about how many people really think about this. Sometimes I wonder if people forget their own past indiscretions, actions, behaviors, acts, etc., before they judge, condemn, or act out inconsiderately towards others?
Have you ever been around someone who gives off a bad 'vibe' or a negative feeling, even when you are in the best mood? Sometimes, I think people act 'tough' because they have so many insecurities themselves and their life is not going the way they want.
We are all flawed human beings. No one is perfect. Everyone has a past. Everyone has done things in their life they wish years later they hadn't. People get mad, people judge and hopefully people move on.
Sometimes I wonder if those that don't like "drama" are those that not knowingly create it themself or contribute to it by their own actions? Interesting thought huh?
I don't believe there is ever an acceptable reason to judge someone. I know that I've done it in the past, and as I grow older, I do believe I am getting wiser. It's strange how your outlook on life becomes more clearer and alittle less fogged as you get older.
People around us, both family and friends, make decisions we don't agree with. They, at times, tend to disappoint us. We sometimes act out, get angry, judge them or the friends they associate with and tend to ignore and shun them. Now how is this acceptable?
Earlier I was reading a friends blog on a website who was describing a disagreement she was having with her sisters husband. She treated her brother-in-law rudely and not realizing that it was affecting her own relationship with her sister, those around her and she was beginning to be seen a someone on a "high-horse".
To make a long story short, her disagreement with her sisters husband, finally boiled into a big shouting match with her own sister. For two weeks they didn't talk to each other, there was tension, other family members felt the tension, it was difficult for everyone.
Then she goes on to say...one day she was reading through her journal from before her teenage years. She said she was a "wayward" teen, the rebellious one in her family. She dabbled with things she shouldn't have that she now warns her own kids about. Anyhow, she read how she got a letter from her sister turning her most troubled times. Her sister did not judge her for her actions, did not condemn her for her less then inspiring friends, did not speak down to her nor put her off. Her sister wrote her to tell her how much she loved her and will always love her, no matter what decisions she made in her life, she was still going to be there for her. She said the one sentence that struck her was "Tonya, I want you to know I am not disappointed in you but only concerned for you"......she thought to herself "How could she not be disappointed in me? I haven't done the best things lately"....
So when she had this harsh exchange recently with her sister, she cried. She thought "How can I meddle and judge my sisters husband when I am not waking in his shoes or do I know what struggles and trials they face each day?" She said she realized she based all her anger off what she heard from other family members and this clouded her judgement.
She wrote her sister an email and brought up that letter her sister had wrote her 22 years earlier. She said she finally realized the message she said meant when she said she wasn't disappointed in her:
To quote her blog:
Heavenly Father doesn't give the message that He is disappointed. He loves, and lifts, and comforts, and extends a hand. He draws in the sand and says, "Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee..." John 8:10-11 He says to a woman at the well, "For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly." He knew she was an adulteress and just before this revelation to her, he offered her living water. And a few verses later, reveals himself to her as the Messiah. (John 4) He did not judge, nor did he condemn, and He did not withhold blessings she needed from her.
He is not the kind of Father who tells his children negative messages. He is the type of father that will kneel by you, lift you tenderly, and lead you to your greatness.
That is the God I know. That is the God I love. If only this could be known by all who struggle, if only their heart could feel it, sense it, live and breathe it. The whole nature of difficultly would change, the entire outlook on the struggle, and the comfort that's always there could be truly felt.
Have you ever been around someone who gives off a bad 'vibe' or a negative feeling, even when you are in the best mood? Sometimes, I think people act 'tough' because they have so many insecurities themselves and their life is not going the way they want.
We are all flawed human beings. No one is perfect. Everyone has a past. Everyone has done things in their life they wish years later they hadn't. People get mad, people judge and hopefully people move on.
Sometimes I wonder if those that don't like "drama" are those that not knowingly create it themself or contribute to it by their own actions? Interesting thought huh?
I don't believe there is ever an acceptable reason to judge someone. I know that I've done it in the past, and as I grow older, I do believe I am getting wiser. It's strange how your outlook on life becomes more clearer and alittle less fogged as you get older.
People around us, both family and friends, make decisions we don't agree with. They, at times, tend to disappoint us. We sometimes act out, get angry, judge them or the friends they associate with and tend to ignore and shun them. Now how is this acceptable?
Earlier I was reading a friends blog on a website who was describing a disagreement she was having with her sisters husband. She treated her brother-in-law rudely and not realizing that it was affecting her own relationship with her sister, those around her and she was beginning to be seen a someone on a "high-horse".
To make a long story short, her disagreement with her sisters husband, finally boiled into a big shouting match with her own sister. For two weeks they didn't talk to each other, there was tension, other family members felt the tension, it was difficult for everyone.
Then she goes on to say...one day she was reading through her journal from before her teenage years. She said she was a "wayward" teen, the rebellious one in her family. She dabbled with things she shouldn't have that she now warns her own kids about. Anyhow, she read how she got a letter from her sister turning her most troubled times. Her sister did not judge her for her actions, did not condemn her for her less then inspiring friends, did not speak down to her nor put her off. Her sister wrote her to tell her how much she loved her and will always love her, no matter what decisions she made in her life, she was still going to be there for her. She said the one sentence that struck her was "Tonya, I want you to know I am not disappointed in you but only concerned for you"......she thought to herself "How could she not be disappointed in me? I haven't done the best things lately"....
So when she had this harsh exchange recently with her sister, she cried. She thought "How can I meddle and judge my sisters husband when I am not waking in his shoes or do I know what struggles and trials they face each day?" She said she realized she based all her anger off what she heard from other family members and this clouded her judgement.
She wrote her sister an email and brought up that letter her sister had wrote her 22 years earlier. She said she finally realized the message she said meant when she said she wasn't disappointed in her:
To quote her blog:
Heavenly Father doesn't give the message that He is disappointed. He loves, and lifts, and comforts, and extends a hand. He draws in the sand and says, "Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee..." John 8:10-11 He says to a woman at the well, "For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly." He knew she was an adulteress and just before this revelation to her, he offered her living water. And a few verses later, reveals himself to her as the Messiah. (John 4) He did not judge, nor did he condemn, and He did not withhold blessings she needed from her.
He is not the kind of Father who tells his children negative messages. He is the type of father that will kneel by you, lift you tenderly, and lead you to your greatness.
That is the God I know. That is the God I love. If only this could be known by all who struggle, if only their heart could feel it, sense it, live and breathe it. The whole nature of difficultly would change, the entire outlook on the struggle, and the comfort that's always there could be truly felt.
22 years later, my sisters message to me was more pertinent then ever before, because now I understood.
Of course, her and her sister and her sisters husband made amends. My friend was humbled and said through the course of her "issues" with her sisters husband, she realized she was far from perfect and she didn't want to live in a "glass house" because glass gets scratched, fogged, dirty and you can't look out clearly through a scratched, fogged, dirty window, just as our judgements should not be clouded nor our disappointments in others be unscathed without first 'perfection" in our own lives.
So, sometimes I am moved and learn so much through others and isn't it strange that we all have almost have the same trials and lessons to learn?
My point is, if you want to be accepted for who you are, first accept others for who they are.
Friday, August 15, 2008
An Old, yet Great, Friend
So tonight I went to go see ATS perform along with There For Tomorrow...actually enjoyed my little night out....but the best part is...........
...........getting home, logging into your email and seeing a very long email from a good friend!
Let me tell you about her...her name is Kimberly....she's an old friend from like almost 20 years ago. When I lived in Washington DC she was one of the very first friends I made. She was just a newlywed then and her husband played Pro Football for some team (I can't remember..just never cared much for football back then)...anyhow, Kim was just awesome, always encouraging and just someone who lit a room up when ever she walked in. My first time ever to New York City was with her and two other friends!
When I moved from DC back to California, I stayed in touch with her for probably two years by letter and phone. She moved to Philadelphia because her husband, Jeff, was traded to the Eagles.
Somehow, as life happens, we lost touch. As days got busy, our lives took different directions, we somehow drifted apart. I never forgot her and often thought of her through the years.
Anyhow, three months ago, I was having this strong urge to find her..just really wanted to at least see how she was......So off I went on my internet search.... Last I knew was she was living in Philadelphia...so I started there....Kimberly and Jeff Sniffen.....no luck ....so I decided to keep looking for a few days here and there...then one day I came across online a newspaper article that she and Jeff were in. However the article was for South Carolina!!! What!!!...so I read the article and it was about them opening this new seafood restaurant....After trying searching in South Carolina I came to a dead end!...
Then I thought about trying to search under her maiden name...Kimberly Chase....and what do you know!!...Lots came up...but for a Kimberly and Jeff Chase.....I was alittle dumbfounded, because I knew Jeff's last name was Sniffen...anyhow, I found a phone number in Orlando, Florida for them. I was like...."if this is them and they live in Orlando, I'm about to hit a wall"...because all those days I lived in Orlando and dreaded each day, if I had friends living there at the same time it would of made all the difference!
So one night I called the number got a voice mail. Left a message. About two hours later my phone rang...IT WAS KIMBERLY!!!! OMG....talk about luck, it was awesome!! We chatted on the phone for about two hours, laughed, reminisced, caught up. It was just like 20 years ago...she told me Jeff often thought about me as well everytime he was in Southern California.......he is now an actor!! She was more bummed when she heard I lived only 15 minutes from her in Orlando those years....that was the bummer part to find out!!
So we've talked here and there since then. Her husband does alot of acting now and can't believe it...he left football after an injury, they used his money and opened up that restaurant, that didn't go well and she said they got to over $600,000 in debt because of it. They moved from South Carolina to Orlando to start over a new life. Then like a story out of book, Jeff took Kim and their son to Disney World and this guy approached him about being in a movie..he was an agent...so from there Jeff's career turned around and he has done alot of work. He just finished last week a second 15 episodes of Days of Our Lives...you can find more about him and his acting at http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0153779/ Oh, before I forget, Kim told me when Jeff started acting the agent suggested a stage name, so he took his wife's maiden name "Chase" and since she never liked her married last name, she was happy to drop "Sniffen"..lol...that is how I ended up finding them. She was amazed I remembered her maiden name. Honestly if I didn't I'd probably never of found her!
So back to tonight....I got this really cool email from her. She really wants to visit with me! She is offering to pay my ticket to Orlando then from there her, her husband, her best gal friend and me go to New York City. She is serious and wants to do this at the end of September or October, because Jeff starts filming some new movie in November in Los Angeles. She is ready to buy my ticket!!
Oh and get this....to rub salt in a wound. I never really told her about why I was living in Orlando until my last email to her on Sunday....she about dropped dead she said...because she saw JETT17 perform at a fundraiser in Orlando with Joey Fatone.....I remembered exactly which show that was!!! I stayed at the Lakehouse that night, because I was over the drama at the time and about to move back to California!! Can you believe how close our lives were at that time, yet they never crossed paths!!
Anyhow, I'm just on cloud nine right now, because of her email. It just feels so good to have friends that know me, accept me and don't always try to understand me--but just love me for who I am. I got to remember that!!
So do I take her and her husband up on their offer to buy me my tickets or what?? I probably won't just yet, because I got to get back in shape...seriously!! But it would be nice and I'm thinking about it strongly!!
Anyhow, if you read this blog, sorry it was long, but I just had to tell my story about Kimberly! (Oh and Kim, if you are reading this, hope I didn't embarrass you :) ...)
Smile and goodnight!!
...........getting home, logging into your email and seeing a very long email from a good friend!
Let me tell you about her...her name is Kimberly....she's an old friend from like almost 20 years ago. When I lived in Washington DC she was one of the very first friends I made. She was just a newlywed then and her husband played Pro Football for some team (I can't remember..just never cared much for football back then)...anyhow, Kim was just awesome, always encouraging and just someone who lit a room up when ever she walked in. My first time ever to New York City was with her and two other friends!
When I moved from DC back to California, I stayed in touch with her for probably two years by letter and phone. She moved to Philadelphia because her husband, Jeff, was traded to the Eagles.
Somehow, as life happens, we lost touch. As days got busy, our lives took different directions, we somehow drifted apart. I never forgot her and often thought of her through the years.
Anyhow, three months ago, I was having this strong urge to find her..just really wanted to at least see how she was......So off I went on my internet search.... Last I knew was she was living in Philadelphia...so I started there....Kimberly and Jeff Sniffen.....no luck ....so I decided to keep looking for a few days here and there...then one day I came across online a newspaper article that she and Jeff were in. However the article was for South Carolina!!! What!!!...so I read the article and it was about them opening this new seafood restaurant....After trying searching in South Carolina I came to a dead end!...
Then I thought about trying to search under her maiden name...Kimberly Chase....and what do you know!!...Lots came up...but for a Kimberly and Jeff Chase.....I was alittle dumbfounded, because I knew Jeff's last name was Sniffen...anyhow, I found a phone number in Orlando, Florida for them. I was like...."if this is them and they live in Orlando, I'm about to hit a wall"...because all those days I lived in Orlando and dreaded each day, if I had friends living there at the same time it would of made all the difference!
So one night I called the number got a voice mail. Left a message. About two hours later my phone rang...IT WAS KIMBERLY!!!! OMG....talk about luck, it was awesome!! We chatted on the phone for about two hours, laughed, reminisced, caught up. It was just like 20 years ago...she told me Jeff often thought about me as well everytime he was in Southern California.......he is now an actor!! She was more bummed when she heard I lived only 15 minutes from her in Orlando those years....that was the bummer part to find out!!
So we've talked here and there since then. Her husband does alot of acting now and can't believe it...he left football after an injury, they used his money and opened up that restaurant, that didn't go well and she said they got to over $600,000 in debt because of it. They moved from South Carolina to Orlando to start over a new life. Then like a story out of book, Jeff took Kim and their son to Disney World and this guy approached him about being in a movie..he was an agent...so from there Jeff's career turned around and he has done alot of work. He just finished last week a second 15 episodes of Days of Our Lives...you can find more about him and his acting at http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0153779/ Oh, before I forget, Kim told me when Jeff started acting the agent suggested a stage name, so he took his wife's maiden name "Chase" and since she never liked her married last name, she was happy to drop "Sniffen"..lol...that is how I ended up finding them. She was amazed I remembered her maiden name. Honestly if I didn't I'd probably never of found her!
So back to tonight....I got this really cool email from her. She really wants to visit with me! She is offering to pay my ticket to Orlando then from there her, her husband, her best gal friend and me go to New York City. She is serious and wants to do this at the end of September or October, because Jeff starts filming some new movie in November in Los Angeles. She is ready to buy my ticket!!
Oh and get this....to rub salt in a wound. I never really told her about why I was living in Orlando until my last email to her on Sunday....she about dropped dead she said...because she saw JETT17 perform at a fundraiser in Orlando with Joey Fatone.....I remembered exactly which show that was!!! I stayed at the Lakehouse that night, because I was over the drama at the time and about to move back to California!! Can you believe how close our lives were at that time, yet they never crossed paths!!
Anyhow, I'm just on cloud nine right now, because of her email. It just feels so good to have friends that know me, accept me and don't always try to understand me--but just love me for who I am. I got to remember that!!
So do I take her and her husband up on their offer to buy me my tickets or what?? I probably won't just yet, because I got to get back in shape...seriously!! But it would be nice and I'm thinking about it strongly!!
Anyhow, if you read this blog, sorry it was long, but I just had to tell my story about Kimberly! (Oh and Kim, if you are reading this, hope I didn't embarrass you :) ...)
Smile and goodnight!!
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Spider Life
So tonight I was staring out my window as it was lightening, taking in the "awe" of nature, then I saw this spider going down my window.
I was about to smash it dead. I guess that instinct to kill it comes from habit.
But for some odd reason I was fascinated at just watching it move.
Then I started thinking what a strange yet almost peaceful life spiders live.
Spiders have no comfort. Spiders are always changing their direction. Spiders just live and deal with what works for them.
Then I realized, as humans, we basically love comfort and hate change. We humans prefer easy and simple, over brutal and functional.
At least I do most of the time.
I wonder what life would be like if we all made the decision to do what worked for us as opposed to what was easy for us.
Somehow, tonight a spider got me thinking.
I was about to smash it dead. I guess that instinct to kill it comes from habit.
But for some odd reason I was fascinated at just watching it move.
Then I started thinking what a strange yet almost peaceful life spiders live.
Spiders have no comfort. Spiders are always changing their direction. Spiders just live and deal with what works for them.
Then I realized, as humans, we basically love comfort and hate change. We humans prefer easy and simple, over brutal and functional.
At least I do most of the time.
I wonder what life would be like if we all made the decision to do what worked for us as opposed to what was easy for us.
Somehow, tonight a spider got me thinking.
Thursday, August 7, 2008
ME
So this past week has been pretty hard and burdensome on me. I won't go into details, but I'm struggling alot with forgiveness right now.
What I do know is that in this past week, I've had some great chats with "old" friends who I am finding on facebook (man I love facebook!), and one friend, he really enlightened me to thinking...
So what I've done is thrown away my pretense of perfection and have begun to embrace the flaws and follies of life, well, my life in general. I love me. I love who I am -my personality, my hopes and aspirations, everything that I can be and want to be. I am a good man. Many good things have happened to me in my life, and I believe many more good things will happen to me.
In many ways I am an optimist with jaded edges. I am a man full of conflict -both good and bad have their way with me. I wouldn't change a thing about who I am, and my struggles that have shaped who I am. When I look in the mirror now, I see a man that God has created --talented in his own rights, intelligent and full of love.
Regardless, of my faults, I am always believe I'm a good friend, concerned, helpful, loving, willing to go out of my way for others....I hope this person realizes what they are now going to miss.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Two Kinds Of People
There are two kinds of people on earth today,
Just two kinds of people no more I say.
Not the good and the bad for tis well understood,
That the good are half bad and the bad are half good.
Not the happy and sad for the swift flying years,
Bring each man his laughter and each man his tears
Not the rich and the poor for to count a man's wealth,
You must first know the state of his conscience and health.
Not the humble and proud for in life's busy span,
Who puts on vain errors is not counted a man.
No! The two kinds of people on earth I mean,
Are the people who lift and the people who lean.
Wherever you go, you will find the world's masses
Are ever divided in just these two classes.
And strangely enough you will find too, I mean
There is only one lifter to twenty who lean.
This one question I ask, are you easing the load
Of overtaxed lifters who toll down the road?
Or are you a leaner who lets others bear
Your portion of worry and labor and care?
__Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Just two kinds of people no more I say.
Not the good and the bad for tis well understood,
That the good are half bad and the bad are half good.
Not the happy and sad for the swift flying years,
Bring each man his laughter and each man his tears
Not the rich and the poor for to count a man's wealth,
You must first know the state of his conscience and health.
Not the humble and proud for in life's busy span,
Who puts on vain errors is not counted a man.
No! The two kinds of people on earth I mean,
Are the people who lift and the people who lean.
Wherever you go, you will find the world's masses
Are ever divided in just these two classes.
And strangely enough you will find too, I mean
There is only one lifter to twenty who lean.
This one question I ask, are you easing the load
Of overtaxed lifters who toll down the road?
Or are you a leaner who lets others bear
Your portion of worry and labor and care?
__Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Friday, July 25, 2008
BUMMED....SAD.....BUMMED.....
I just realized an hour ago that my favorite and ONLY hat I own is gone....
I am a big fan of Puma...I own too many Puma shoes, some bags, shirts and a few other Puma items. However this was my only Puma Hat....I am not much of a hat wearer, and lately I've been wearing my Puma hat alot....especially with this hot weather this summer.
Anyhow, was at Liberty Park yesterday for Pioneer Day here in Utah...had my hat on all day..hot and sweaty, went to sit by the entertainment stage and socialize, relax and wait for the fireworks....I recall taking my hat off and setting it in my lap...that was the last time I remember it....hung out for a while after fireworks then grabbed my lawn chair and walked back to the van...was dark then, so beloved hat must of fell out of my lap or chair at some point and did not notice....
Anyhow, I don't covet much...but I am sad my hat is gone.......I went to Puma.com to order another one just like the one I had but the black ones are out of stock...they have other colors now I just have to decide which color....and that will take me awhile until then I'll just mourn my hat and hope that whomever found it enjoys it..it's practically new, hardly worn and well, I miss my hat!!!!
I am a big fan of Puma...I own too many Puma shoes, some bags, shirts and a few other Puma items. However this was my only Puma Hat....I am not much of a hat wearer, and lately I've been wearing my Puma hat alot....especially with this hot weather this summer.Anyhow, was at Liberty Park yesterday for Pioneer Day here in Utah...had my hat on all day..hot and sweaty, went to sit by the entertainment stage and socialize, relax and wait for the fireworks....I recall taking my hat off and setting it in my lap...that was the last time I remember it....hung out for a while after fireworks then grabbed my lawn chair and walked back to the van...was dark then, so beloved hat must of fell out of my lap or chair at some point and did not notice....
Anyhow, I don't covet much...but I am sad my hat is gone.......I went to Puma.com to order another one just like the one I had but the black ones are out of stock...they have other colors now I just have to decide which color....and that will take me awhile until then I'll just mourn my hat and hope that whomever found it enjoys it..it's practically new, hardly worn and well, I miss my hat!!!!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
It's Mind Boggling To Me!!!
Those that know me well enough, know that I have a very low tolerance for fast food workers and store clerks who take their job so seriously.
I have in the past, had many encounters or should I say 'run-in's' with store clerks and fast food workers. Almost all the time ending with me getting what I wanted in the first place.
So, it is no surprise that these past two days I have had two episodes with a store clerk and a fast food worker...and it got me irked enough to blog about it.
First Scenerio:
I have found a great appreciate for paper bags at grocery stores. I rarely get the plastic ones anymore. I ask for paperbags. While two months ago, while shopping I decided to take with me to the store the paperbags I had saved, thinking, "why not reuse them, they are perfectly fine". So off I went to Smith's Grocery with my 7 paperbags. When I got to the register, I handed the cashier my paperbags and said "oh you can reuse these". As she finished ringing up my purchases the last thing I saw on the screen was a credit for "Bag Refund $.35" I asked her what that was for and she said "for your paperbags" She explained to me that whenever a customer brings back their paperbags to reuse they get a .5 cent credit per bag. I loved it!! So now I bring back my paper bags all the time...and always got my little credit, plus doing my small part for the environment.
So, yesterday morning I went to Smiths, paperbags in hand. Had a $20.00 bill to pay for my items. My bill came to $20.19, so I was short .19cents. I looked and said to the cashier "oh you didn't give me my bag refund for .25 cents. (5 bags I brought back) She looked at me with this glare and said sarcastically "Bag Refund???" I replied, "Yes, bag refund" She proceeded to tell me she heard of no such refund, I then explained it to her, she said she would ask the manager, then said to me "$20.19"...I said, "First, I want my bag refund credit and you can call a manager now"....This other lady was behind me and she was alittle annoyed I could tell, but she also wasn't aware of what was going on because she got to the register after our conversation had started. The cashier called the store manager, he came, she explained to him in a tone as though I didn't know what I was talking about, about the "bag refund" ...he immediately said "oh yes, it's .5 cent per bag, how many bags did you bring sir?" I said "5" he said great..and showed the cashier how to type it in and he left. Do you know this cashier did not apologize to me or say another further except. "$19.83"...so I, being annoyed, said to her "See you owe me money now and now you learned something new for the day" She looked at me and smiled. Annoyed she was and couldn't admit she was wrong. Oh and the lady behind me, she clued in and said "Why did I not ever know about a bag refund, I will start using paperbags and bringing them back, it's extra gas money!" I smiled and left, alittle annoyed that this cashier acted as though this .25 cents was coming out of her pocket...but also vindicated.
Scenerio 2:
I went to Arctic Circle tonight. Order a number 5 meal, got to the window, paid the cashier and said "can you put in some extra fry sauce and napkins" She looked at me and said nothing. I assumed she heard me. She handed me my bag of food, I looked before driving off and saw only two fry sauces in the bag but lots of napkins. I said "Excuse me, can I get some more fry sauce please" She then told me "It's .10 cent extra per fry sauce, how many do you want?" I said "10 cent?, what? She said yes, their new policy is extra fry sauce is .10 cent each. I said "You don't have this posted and I think that is overcharging, I could go in the joint and get as much fry sauce as I want" (Because inside you pump the fry sauce into those little white cups yourself"...She said "That's our policy" I then handed back to her my bag, and said, here you can have the food back and drink, I want my money back. Do you know she looked at me in utter shock!! She said "Excuse me sir? I said "I am not paying .10 cent for extra fry sauce, so I don't want the food at all, you can just give me a refund" She said "I can't do that" ...I said "get your manager" she said "Sir can you pull up to the white line and I will have my manager go out there" I said "No, I can't" ...why I wouldn't is because once I pull up, then they have the upper hand and can make me wait there as long as they want. This way, I sit at the window, everyone behind has to wait and it gets them to rush in the store. So fast food lady gave me a look and shut the window, I saw her go over to her manager talk to her, they both looked my way and then the manager came to me and said "Sorry sir, you want a refund why?" I said "Because I want extra fry sauce and I am not about to pay for it, when I could walk inside and take as much as I want" I really do believe they rip you off at drive thru!!! She was like "ok, I'll give you the fry the sauce this time, but please know our new policy is extra fry sauce is .10 cents each" She handed me a HAND FULL of fry sauce....6 to be exact and all I originally wanted was 2 more!! I said to her "while next time I'll go inside and get as much as I want." She looked at me, I looked at the cashier with that "See I got my fry sauce plus more" look and drove off....I was irked and couldn't understand why that cashier felt an undying duty to hold on to her fry sauce and collect her .20 extra cents. When in the end they gave up .60 cents to me!! I knew the manager knew it wasn't worth refunding and losing $5.83 cents back to me and having to throw away a burger, fries and coke over .20 cents...she knew it. She just probably didn't expect someone like me to come through and put up a fuss over what I call their OVERCHARGING!!!..( Oh stick a pump at drive thru, like inside, and let us customers pump all the fry sauce we want!!)
So those are my stories and though I might sound cheap, know that I am not. Just that I have a very low tolerance for workers who take their paperbags and fry sauce too seriously. Unless they owned the company I could understand them better, but really come on! Peace and Smile!
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